re: Gone

Quoting Flag:" I'd feel worse for you if I wasn't wondering if I'll be able to afford something for dinner tonight. Rice and tuna again!"

More than I'm having.  

Quoting The Doctor:" First of all--- dude, it's not Christmas yet. You don't know that he didn't buy you a gift. But second ... [snip!] ... you, now better buy me things"! Gifts should be given for their own sake, not to receive something in return. IMO, of course."

No we had an agreement that we would get eachother one thing atleast out of a list of things that we both wanted .... I have reasons why I think he is not getting me anything that is not my theory at all

but keep assuming that ...

Quoting Regina George ♡:" I'm not getting a Christmas gift from SO either   he's broke from our wedding  "

Congrats on the wedding I am newly married aswell but we did not have a big wedding married on the beach with few friends and family ... cost us very little right outside of where we live really lol  

Quoting Bustie:" No we had an agreement that we would get eachother one thing atleast out of a list of things that we ... [snip!] ... wanted .... I have reasons why I think he is not getting me anything that is not my theory at all but keep assuming that ..."

HA, I'm assuming that? You said so. You're pissed that he didn't buy you anything (which you don't know, but you assume....) and you're pissed because you spent a lot of money on him.

You're pissed, already, that he hasn't bought you anything. Why the hell would you be pissed already? It's not Christmas yet. First of all, maybe he hasn't bought you anything yet. But jaysus... he's got 2 weeks. Why, why, why get yourself all pissed off over nothing?

Quoting Bustie:" Congrats on the wedding I am newly married aswell but we did not have a big wedding married on the beach ... [snip!] ... wedding married on the beach with few friends and family ... cost us very little right outside of where we live really lol  "

Thank you! And congrats on being a newly married couple  
I wish I would have done the destination wedding, somewhere on the beach!   weddings are stressful hahah

Quoting The Doctor:" HA, I'm assuming that? You said so. You're pissed that he didn't buy you anything (which you don't ... [snip!] ... he hasn't bought you anything yet. But jaysus... he's got 2 weeks. Why, why, why get yourself all pissed off over nothing?"

I am not pissed and I do not want a gift because I spent so much I wanted a gift before I spent money on his gift I cried out of pregnant lady hormones and simple boredom never said I was pissed in this thread... just dont think I am getting anything

She seems sad if anything. hope you get your kitchen OP lol not askin for much.

Quoting Bustie:" I am not pissed and I do not want a gift because I spent so much I wanted a gift before I spent money ... [snip!] ... of pregnant lady hormones and simple boredom never said I was pissed in this thread... just dont think I am getting anything"

Okay. If it's stressing you out/making you cry, talk to him. Really, I think you're stressing yourself out for no reason, and honestly, he probably doesn't want you to know what he bought you.

Christmas is about giving not receiving, IMO. I bought my dh gifts but I would never expect him to get me anything, even if we talked about it.

Quoting The Doctor:" Okay. If it's stressing you out/making you cry, talk to him. Really, I think you're stressing yourself out for no reason, and honestly, he probably doesn't want you to know what he bought you."

  This, just because he doesn't have some gift wrapped up and in front of you doesn't mean he didn't get you anything

Quoting J+K=Bri+?  :" Christmas is about giving not receiving, IMO. I bought my dh gifts but I would never expect him to get me anything, even if we talked about it."

Well for my first christmas with my husband I expect things to go as we agreed for them to go ... next yr years after that with our kids things may be different but this year we planned no family just us and the gifts

don't think that is asking for alot or so horrible ...

Quoting .B.:"   This, just because he doesn't have some gift wrapped up and in front of you doesn't mean he didn't get you anything"

Yeah but he knows what I really wanted you have to order that... I saw the order forms for his moms kitchen he does not know that ... but I did

there was not one for our home ...and with Christmas so close no way he just has not put in the order everything I asked for was home related and would need to be ordered I am home all the time want stuff for our home since I have to be here all the time by myself ...

ohhh =[ you may not be gettin anything hon.

Quoting Bustie:" Yeah but he knows what I really wanted you have to order that... I saw the order forms for his moms ... [snip!] ... and would need to be ordered I am home all the time want stuff for our home since I have to be here all the time by myself ..."

so just because you haven't seen an order form with the stuff on it your dead set on you didn't get it?

I thought Christmas was about the birth of a boy god and celebration of his life? Is it really about the gifts?


Why not go take back his presents and you two spend Christmas Day at church and the soup kitchen volunteering instead of exchanging gifts? Rediscover the true meaning of your Christian holiday.