re: BG mommas and preggos!! I NEED YOU!

Quoting CRSx2Mommy:" what a doucher. Well your daughter is very loved and she doesn't need him! Me too. I really want a ... [snip!] ... a home water birth but i'm just going to shoot for a natural deliver and labor at home as long as I can until hospital time."

I would LOVE a water birth! Right now I'm trying to figure out if I want a midwife or not..

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ashleyxdisaster:</b>" I see Dr. Leung now. My OB that I had ... [snip!] ... I didn't even consider changing anything wih this pregnancy. The hour and 15 minute ride sucks but I think it's worth it."

Awe I know her! And that is totally a hall but that hospital has the best NICU in MA.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ashleyxdisaster:</b>" Awe I know her! And that is totally a hall but that hospital has the best NICU in MA."</blockquote>


She's an awesome doctor! I love her! She's my primary care provider as well as both my kids'. So she's been my dd's doctor since she was conceived, through delivery and still now, which I love.
And I know it has a fantastic NICU, with my son we were well versed in their NICU procedures even though, thankfully, he never ended up needing to be there.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Mrs. Mallard*:</b>" i was told i wasnt allowed to eat because ... [snip!] ... energy up when it came time to push. Who is your doctor if you don't mind my asking? I use a family practice doctor, not an OB."

i was at WNC OB/GYN then they for some reason stopped being an OB...smh, 28 weeks pregnant and i had to find a new dr, i had medicaid as a secondary insurance so the only place that would take me was the low-income OB/ which is also the high risk dr.

It kinda annoyed me though because i had blue cross blue shield as my primary insurance and only had medicaid so that my son would be covered as soon as he was born....annoyed the crap outta me. but on the upside it was extremely close to my house, like 2 miles away.



ETA: I think i was at a higher risk for a c-section (wich i ended up having) i was induced 10 days early due to having a uterine infection, i wasnt dilating at all to begin with before the induction, and they had already seen that DS couldnt handle strong contractions, i also had a pretty bad fever.

Quoting *Mrs. Mallard*:" i was at WNC OB/GYN then they for some reason stopped being an OB...smh, 28 weeks pregnant and i had ... [snip!] ... with before the induction, and they had already seen that DS couldnt handle strong contractions, i also had a pretty bad fever."

oh man that stinks. im sorry, what a pain.
i have really easy, complication free pregnancies and I've never even torn during delivery, never had stithces, so they kind of let me do my own thing and not worry about my labors so much. I'm easy. lol

Quoting MommaSav2:" oh man that stinks. im sorry, what a pain. i have really easy, complication free pregnancies and I've ... [snip!] ... delivery, never had stithces, so they kind of let me do my own thing and not worry about my labors so much. I'm easy. lol"

lol, yeah i had a rough delivery according to my mom. i didnt think it was that bad just ended in a c-section. we're gonna start TTC in June after our vow renewal, DS will be 9, almost 10 months, that wayour kids are about 2 years apart and i can go for a VBAC.

How disgustingly huge and vainy my boobs would get along with huge nipples!

How bad it hurts when your milk comes in and that your boobs manage to get even bigger than before.

Swollen vagina!

Cankles, thankles... Well swollen everything.

How hard and painful breast feeding is.

How bad it hurts to sneeze after a c section, seriously worst pain ever and I feared ever having to sneeze again. Haha.

Quoting Sonya B *Due in March!*:" How disgustingly huge and vainy my boobs would get along with huge nipples! How bad it hurts when your ... [snip!] ... is. How bad it hurts to sneeze after a c section, seriously worst pain ever and I feared ever having to sneeze again. Haha."

THIS!  

Are you trying for a VBAC?

<blockquote><b>Quoting ashleyxdisaster:</b>" THIS!   Are you trying for a VBAC?"</blockquote>



Honestly, I am scared to death of a vaginal birth for some reason... When I was in the hospital with Keatyn I was scared of both a c section or vaginal but knew she had to come out some how haha. I recovered pretty fast with my c section and it wasn't too horrible so I am scheduled for another c section on Febuary 28th.

Quoting Sonya B *Due in March!*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ashleyxdisaster:</b>" THIS!   Are you trying for a VBAC?"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... I recovered pretty fast with my c section and it wasn't too horrible so I am scheduled for another c section on Febuary 28th."

lol! I'm the opposite, totally terrified of another c-section! I also didn't have the best experience so I'm sure that is a large part of my fear!
That's so exciting! You make the prettiest babies! I'm so excited for how cute this one is going to be! yay! And I hope your recovery is just as fast with this one as it was with K!

<blockquote><b>Quoting ashleyxdisaster:</b>" lol! I'm the opposite, totally terrified of another c-section! I also didn't have the best experience ... [snip!] ... so excited for how cute this one is going to be! yay! And I hope your recovery is just as fast with this one as it was with K!"</blockquote>




My experience wasn't too bad with Keatyn so I think that's why I'm completely okay with another c section, only thing I fear is having to sneeze haha! I remember being in the bathroom the day after my c section and sneezing full force and didn't even think it would hurt, I sat in the bathroom holding my stomach crying felt like I had been shot haha! Once I got home, I didn't really stay down like I was told I was getting up and down the stairs lifting Keatyn and everything, I think it made my recovery faster. But I've heard that a scheduled one is so much easier than an emergency, so I hope this one goes well.

Only thing that really upset me about my c section with Keatyn is after they delivered her they took her and I didn't see her for about an hour afterwards plus I was out of it cause I requested the gas to calm me cause I was so nervous. I don't know if they took her cause it was an emergency and her heart rate was all wacky or if they do that all the time with a c section?

Thank you! I am so excited for another, this pregnancy is flying by its kinda sad but good in a way. I'm also struggling with picking a name this time around!

I can't wait till you guys start TTC and have another, you guys will make one cute baby! And I bet Scarlett would love a little brother or sister  

Quoting Sonya B *Due in March!*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ashleyxdisaster:</b>" lol! I'm the opposite, totally terrified ... [snip!] ... guys start TTC and have another, you guys will make one cute baby! And I bet Scarlett would love a little brother or sister  "

Ugh they took Scarlett right after my c-section too! It sucked!! Do you have any names that you're deicing between or just completely stuck?

Awe thank you! Scarlett wants us to have a baby like this second lol but we explained to her that we need to and want to be married first and then we will work on it. She says she wants a brother AND a sister.. lol idk about that! Are you planning for more in the future of is baby # 2 it for you?

<blockquote><b>Quoting ashleyxdisaster:</b>" Ugh they took Scarlett right after my c-section too! It sucked!! Do you have any names that you're ... [snip!] ... says she wants a brother AND a sister.. lol idk about that! Are you planning for more in the future of is baby # 2 it for you?"</blockquote>




I really hope they won't do that again, mostly since its scheduled I'd think they wouldn't. But I guess I'll find out. I might pass on getting the gas this time so I won't be so out of it.

I have a couple names I like, but nothing I am set on... Nothing that i am sure about yet and it sucks! I don't want something really common but nothing that's weird haha. With Keatyn I had her name picked out before I knew if I was having a boy or girl this time nothing is coming to me I really like quite yet, but I guess I have a couple more months to decide.

Keatyn kept asking for a brother or sister for so long too, and with it taking us a year and a half to even get pregnant it sucked! I think the age gap between Keatyn and this baby will be good, she will be a big help I think and I think I'd go crazy with a younger child and a baby.

Haha, she's going to jinx you with twins! ;) I am excited for you guys!
I think 3 is my limit, my husband wants more but right now I say 3 is it, but then again before Keatyn I didn't want kids and didn't think I'd be having a second so I guess things change haha.

Quoting Sonya B *Due in March!*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ashleyxdisaster:</b>" Ugh they took Scarlett right after ... [snip!] ... 3 is it, but then again before Keatyn I didn't want kids and didn't think I'd be having a second so I guess things change haha."

You have plenty of time and I'm sure the name you choose will be original without being tacky. I'm so excited for you lol I'm so lame!

And oh man the twins thing TERRIFIES me.. I've always thought I would have twin boys..We have names picked out already but I want to actually look at the baby before I name him/her. With Scarlett I knew she was going to be a Scarlett and her name fits her so well.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ashleyxdisaster:</b>" You have plenty of time and I'm sure the name you choose will be original without being tacky. I'm ... [snip!] ... look at the baby before I name him/her. With Scarlett I knew she was going to be a Scarlett and her name fits her so well."</blockquote>




if we don't think of anything we might have to go with Keatyn's suggestions... Cinderella or Pinky Pie...haha!
I felt like I was pregnant forever with Keatyn but this one is flying by, so I feel like I need to hurry and get a name picked out. I thought about getting a list of names I liked then naming her after I have her to see what she'd look like, but well see!

Twins scare me too, I couldn't do it! I'd be one stressed mama! Thinking of packing around 2 carseats, double the diapers, babies crying at night... It would be hard. Getting pregnant with Clomid you have a higher risk of twins, I risked it and just hoped I wouldn't get twins lol.

I love the name Scarlett, I don't know anyone named Scarlett either. My husbands mom didn't like Keatyn's name and said it was a boys name, but I didn't care what anyone thought, it fits her so well too!