Quoting Bri An Brad Fitch:" I would never go off on her I just feel like it sometimes. My point is before we moved in she promised ... [snip!] ... she can feed him an I don't wanna pump all the time I can sometimes but it's not going to be a everyday hour if the day thing"
I think that if you are that unhappy you should think of you and your baby and go to your moms. explain that you dont want the baby living there with the smell and nasty uncleaned place. Your husband will either come or stay his choice. As for breast feeding she can't make you pump but it shoulds like there will be a problem with her trying to have control of that and baby