I don't want to wait!

I want to stop taking birth control NOW.

Ugh. I'm being strong. I have baby fever so bad I could probably cry. I know, silly. I need to wait until we are more financially stable and whatnot, but hey, baby fever is baby fever. None of that smurf matters right now. I just want to get pregnant and have a baby and watch DD and younger sibling grow up together.   Waaaah.

DH also says he isn't ready. Well if I wait for him to be ready my eggs will be dried up and dusty.

Ugh I know the feeling. My sons going to be three in a few months and I didn't want more than a three year difference between him and our next. We're financially stable right now, but I'm not done with school yet. SO refuses to discuss it until I'm out and have a career. Which is understandable.

Bwhahahahaha, you're what 20? I think you'll be fine...  

Quoting Ciara♥:" Ugh I know the feeling. My sons going to be three in a few months and I didn't want more than a three ... [snip!] ... right now, but I'm not done with school yet. SO refuses to discuss it until I'm out and have a career. Which is understandable."

That's how far apart I want mine. DD is 17mo so I have a while. It just stinks having to wait.

Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:" Bwhahahahaha, you're what 20? I think you'll be fine...  "

Hey now, I'll be 21 next month.

But really I want to be done having kids by 23 or so.

Quoting norah's.momma✿:" Hey now, I'll be 21 next month. But really I want to be done having kids by 23 or so."

Yowsers! I didn't even have my first until I was 26, second @ 29.

I completly understand baby fever but waiting is probably best for you. I'm 22 and expecting my 4th. I'm not whining about not having a life or anything but most days I want to pull my hair out and I ask myself why I didn't wait.

Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:" Yowsers! I didn't even have my first until I was 26, second @ 29."

I must add it's hilarious you would say something about my age, I just decided to show it on my profile today lol.

My mom was 30 when she had me and never wanted to do anything. I don't know if it was because she was tired or just didn't want to, but that made me want to have kids earlier.

Quoting Mommy to 3 boys & 1 girl:" I completly understand baby fever but waiting is probably best for you. I'm 22 and expecting my 4th. ... [snip!] ... not whining about not having a life or anything but most days I want to pull my hair out and I ask myself why I didn't wait."

Yeah, I do that sometimes when DD is being super bad. But mainly I felt that was when she was a newb. That smurf is tough.

Quoting norah's.momma✿:" Yeah, I do that sometimes when DD is being super bad. But mainly I felt that was when she was a newb. That smurf is tough."

Newborn to 1 year is easy, it's when they start walking and talking that it gets bad. Atleast for me. I have a 3 1/2 yr old, 2 1/2 yr old and a 1 1/2 yr old and they all fight and whine and are constantly glued to my ass. It gets overwhelming very quickly.

I don't care how far apart my son & my next kid are in age,I'm waiting until I have a college degree & a career.Oh,& a wedding band would be nice too. ;) lol 30 is my age limit though.Life is what happens when you're busy making other plans though,so we'll see what happens.

I had my first when I was 20 and second 21 months later. Trust me, wait.

Quoting J&E:" I had my first when I was 20 and second 21 months later. Trust me, wait. "

I LOVE your avi.  

I plan on at least a 3 year age gap. I just want another one so bad right now, if DH was down I would definitely throw away my birth control. I'm glad at least he has a clear head right now.

Quoting Mommy to 3 boys & 1 girl:" Newborn to 1 year is easy, it's when they start walking and talking that it gets bad. Atleast for me. ... [snip!] ... yr old and a 1 1/2 yr old and they all fight and whine and are constantly glued to my ass. It gets overwhelming very quickly."

Yeah, that would drive me nuts. I only plan on having two kids. DD is 17mo and talking a lot already, she's really clingy sometimes if she doesn't feel good, but she usually does her own thing. She can definitely be a handful sometimes though.

Quoting norah's.momma✿:" I LOVE your avi.   I plan on at least a 3 year age gap. I just want another one so bad right now, ... [snip!] ... bad right now, if DH was down I would definitely throw away my birth control. I'm glad at least he has a clear head right now."

Haha, thanks I love her  

3 years is good, if I knew how hard, stressful it was going to with my husband gone for 7 days straight (8 up until a couple of weeks ago). I would of waited 3-4 years. I don't regret it but I have my days where I just want to hide away forever lol..

We are finished having babies now, but I still get baby fever, I just had it bad about a month ago that lasted about 3 months, sucked and I didn't even have any new babies around me