Quoting DaniKayT:" Thanks ladies. Just to be real honest here I have left him before but end up back every time. I have ... [snip!] ... I hope I can just tell the dr I fell on my tummy cause he will be with me at the appointment and I don't want any legal issues."
You're going to stay until you leave... there is no way anyone can talk you into leaving unless you want to. I wish there was something I could say to make you understand you are worth more, you deserve more and that you are so much stronger than you think...
but I've been there. And when people ask, "why did you stay so long" I honestly don't have an answer.... I just didn't think I could ever leave.
But, when the time comes that you do leave, you are going to wonder why you stayed so long, and why you allowed him to do that to you. You are going to realize that you are strong, independent and worthy of respect.
I just hope that you leave before he harms you permanently; either by causing a miscarriage, scarring you or, dare I say it, taking your life.
Be careful. If you need anything, you can PM me.