just need to vent....Long

Ok so my husband and I have been married for almost 8 years ( January 22nd) and we have 2 amazing children a 2 year old daughter and a almost 8 month old son. Our daughter was planned and our son is a birth control baby and I would not trade have either of my kids they are my world.. I know being a parent can be stressful and kids can test you at times but omfg all weekend he has been yelling at our daughter for every little thing..if she is playing to loud he yells if she runs he yells I swear she could just fart and he would fricking yell..I dont know what his damn problem is but is really pissing me off..my daughter just turned 2 at the end of July and I will admit she can be a little smurf at times and not like to listen but come on..he must think he was a prefect kid when i know damn well he was not..he got to the point he would pause a movie he as watching until she left the living room becuase she would make to much noise and he could not hear his damn tv and then tonight he decided to watch the movie 1408 and it scared her mind you I told him not to put a scary movie in while the kids were up but did he listen no so my daughter asked if she could go lay in my bed and watch Elmo and he said no but I told her to go ahead as I would much rather her watch Elmo than some damn scary movie so he got pissed and took the movie out and said smurf it I wont watch anything then..if my mom did not move so far away and I did not have to work I would pack the kids up and leave for a few days...I asked him what his problem was and if he needed space or wanted out and he told me I am over reacting and he just gets frustrated with her and she dont like to listen which to me is a normal 2 year old to test parents and push their limits...sorry so long just needed to vent before I blow up

I think it's completely normal to have those moments when everything our kids do annoy us. For men, I think, it's more often, as they tend to be more aggressive than understanding. Obviously I'm not saying every man is like this. Suggest he go out by himself for a while, or with some friends. Sounds like he just needs a break.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Emily M Smith:</b>" Ok so my husband and I have been married for almost 8 years ( January 22nd) and we have 2 amazing children ... [snip!] ... which to me is a normal 2 year old to test parents and push their limits...sorry so long just needed to vent before I blow up"</blockquote>

I know it gets annoying but everyone has days where every little thing their kids do annoys them. I went for a 2 hour drive....literally just drove and stopped at random stores that looked interesting and window shopped.....yesterday because just the sound of them playing loudly made me want to scream.

I get annoyed with her like yesterday she tried to flush one of his damn soda cans she pulled out of the garbage, a condom and a q tip down the toliet it frustrated me but I hardly yell at her..I guess i get annoyed with his yelling at her over every little thing all weekend and then I tell her its ok to go in mommy's room and watch Elmo and he gets pissed and takes the movie out its like having 3 kids instead of 2 kids and a husband lol