re: I feel like a bad person [vent]

It ain't none my business but your husbands is acting mad suspect. I'd keep an eye out on him...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" It ain't none my business but your husbands is acting mad suspect. I'd keep an eye out on him..."</blockquote>

Always. It's not my first time being in this situation with him. He likes to say that he doesn't stay home because I'm always angry. I'm not angry. I'm frustrated. He doesn't have to explain to a 2 year old why he's "always at work".

With my second pregnancy I was on bedrest from 30 weeks to 36 weeks. When dd had to be borned due to her hr. I had an almost 2 year old at home with me as well. I tried to make it fun for her and she helped me keep my mind off of bed rest. We play games in the bed or colored or watched her favorite movie. I did a lot of reading while she was occupied. when she would get antsy we would go to the livingroom where all her toys were and I'd lay on couch while she play with the livingroom baby gated off so she was safe.

Husband ex husband now didnt do anything to help me out. Dish's piled up til my mom came back to do them. Laundry just piled up. Thank god we had pjs we could wear. His family never came to help. It was very stressful so I understand where you are coming from. I did however have my car but was only allowed to drive when I had a doctors appointment cause that was the only way I could get to it.

Try to keep your head up. Maybe its an option for you to go stay with your mom for a while?

<blockquote><b>Quoting aperkins:</b>" With my second pregnancy I was on bedrest from 30 weeks to 36 weeks. When dd had to be borned due to ... [snip!] ... the only way I could get to it. Try to keep your head up. Maybe its an option for you to go stay with your mom for a while?"</blockquote>

I've thought about staying with the parents, but they are an hour away from any doctors/hospital.

Quoting Moi H*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting aperkins:</b>" With my second pregnancy I was on bedrest from ... [snip!] ... a while?"</blockquote> I've thought about staying with the parents, but they are an hour away from any doctors/hospital."

well arent you still seeing your doctor once every month or every two weeks. If so thats not so bad and I"m sure if you talk to your mom she will help get you back and forth. My ob is 45 minutes from where i live. Its not that bad driving for us.

<blockquote><b>Quoting aperkins:</b>" well arent you still seeing your doctor once every month or every two weeks. If so thats not so bad ... [snip!] ... talk to your mom she will help get you back and forth. My ob is 45 minutes from where i live. Its not that bad driving for us."</blockquote>

I have to go once a week because of my cervical condition. If anything changes, I'll have to be transported to the closest NICU which is 2 hours away.

Quoting Moi H*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting aperkins:</b>" well arent you still seeing your doctor once ... [snip!] ... because of my cervical condition. If anything changes, I'll have to be transported to the closest NICU which is 2 hours away."

Can they come stay with you for a bit here and there

<blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Can they come stay with you for a bit here and there "</blockquote>

Nope. My mom just started a new job.

Quoting Moi H*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Not tellin:</b>" Can they come stay with you for a bit here and there "</blockquote> Nope. My mom just started a new job."