Quoting My Widdle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smokey_Taboo:</b>" I totally get that, i stayed from with ... [snip!] ... that he has an extra like 700$ a month and all he's have to pay is my car payment (220$) and school loan (54$) plus baby needs"
Ok, I have to interject a bit on this one. I get that you want to be with your child not someone elses but your statement here is a little "off".
First of all, you are now living at home. This is the time you should be working as much as the two of you can and saving your $$$ to get back out on your own again. You are about to have your own family and need to be on your own. I am on the fence about him disclosing how much $$$ he has. On one hand, you are having a baby together and caring for the babies needs are just as much his responsibility as they are yours so he shouldn't be too sneaky. On the other hand, you aren't married and really don't have the full "right" to know. Plus he isn't obligated to pay YOUR personal bills. Not right now anyway
IDK, I know what it is like to want to be the only one with your baby and see it all but, if you aren't financially stable on your own, you have to make concessions. This is a game of life and nobody ever said it was going to be easy. You have to do what is necessary for the greater good of your family. If I had to work to help put food on the table, as much as i would hate to do it, I would.