Quoting Erica ☆★:" It's hell. Her assumptions kills me. My family has not judged adam one time. They saw that I love him, ... [snip!] ... here in about a month and we don't need to be focusing on her drama, we need to be focusing on ourselves and our little girl. "
I fully understand. She's an overbearing mother. Basically your SO needs to just break it down to her, and that if she can't accept that and doesn't want anything to do with "this" baby.. then she doesn't have to. But it would mean your SO would be inaccessible.
That's at least what I would say.
Unfortunately the smurf doesn't get better. My Husbands father is just like her. He thinks DH married me because I got pregnant. It was just bad timing.. he proposed 3 weeks before we found out I was pregnant.
Good luck, I can't stand people that always play the victim.