am I over reacting?

so my bf does this thing where he doesn't text me randomly for 2 days when we usually talk every day. i ask him questions and he doesn't answer them unless i ask them like two or three times.


here's an example of our texts. i need opinions.. fri/sat we didn't talk.. at all
sat- me: what are 'we' doing?
sun- him: hello got stuff im dealing with. not ignoring you. just been busy.
me: ok right, so therefore you're ignoring me.. it's ok if you have no time for me. i understand (i overreacted here, but i'm frusterated)
him: wow you took a next level
me: because this is smurfing stupid. i'm getting annoyed. when i'm 'busy' i talk to you.
him: the smurf i have to deal with are problems you will never have to deal with.
me: ok ill just remember when im dealing with stuff to ignore you.

he always has excuses for not talking to me for two straight days.. but they seem invalid to me. shouldn't couples talk about stuff anyway? ugh, so annoyed.

Does he live near you...or....

Maybe you should call instead of texting once a day.

My SO is out of town on work. I know he works his ass off, but we talk at least once a day just to say hi and "I love you."

<blockquote><b>Quoting Marissa- 35 weeks:</b>" so my bf does this thing where he doesn't text me randomly for 2 days when we usually talk every day. ... [snip!] ... talking to me for two straight days.. but they seem invalid to me. shouldn't couples talk about stuff anyway? ugh, so annoyed."</blockquote>



Yeah, way over reacting.

Well what is he dealing with? It takes like 5 seconds to reply...

What the smurf is he doing? That's weird...

You come off alil clingy to me but you are pregnant and relationships are tough but two days is not so bad for a b,f and g,f to not talk maybe he needs some space if you were married living together and he was just ignoring you then that would be different to me but

just give him some time to deal with things

do not keep calling and or texting... men don't like that sort of thing

It would bother me. It takes a couple seconds even just to let you know he's busy and will get back to you. Inconsiderate, IMO.

Idk if I'd call what your doing as overreacting.
But your relationship seems ofd to me. If I was actually with someone who didn't talk/txt or call me for two days then gets mad when I ask about it I'd be leaving.

It also sound like you guys are already on the fritz over something? Because why would you automatically say "are 'we' ok?" If something wasn't up?
If my man didn't txt/call me for two days I'd be making sure "he" is ok and not dead somewhere.

I wouldn't want to talk to you either if you're just going to be a bitchass.

Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" Does he live near you...or.... Maybe you should call instead of texting once a day. My SO is out of ... [snip!] ... My SO is out of town on work. I know he works his ass off, but we talk at least once a day just to say hi and "I love you.""

he lives under 2 hours away. we don't talk on the phone because he doesn't like to.
considering i'm 34 weeks pregnant with his baby, the least thing he could do is text me daily to see how i'm doing. i think i deserve him emotionally supporting me, in which he isn't.

how the hell is she being clingy when this dude goes a full day not talking to her? tha smurf  

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" I wouldn't want to talk to you either if you're just going to be a bitchass."

I'd be pissed the smurf off.

How the smurf is she over-reacting and being clingy? It takes 10 seconds to type out a text that says you're busy.

I dunno, maybe I'm too demanding. I personally would be livid if my man didn't even TRY to get in contact with me after a day or two.

Quoting Rabbit™:" How the smurf is she over-reacting and being clingy? It takes 10 seconds to type out a text that says ... [snip!] ... maybe I'm too demanding. I personally would be livid if my man didn't even TRY to get in contact with me after a day or two. "

 

How hard is it to just reply I'm busy? Ud be pissed abd being a complete smurfing bitch..... but that's me.