re: am I over reacting?

Quoting Marissa- 35 weeks:" we've been together over a year now. i cuss too, but i don't call people names. especially 'smurf' i think that's extremely disrespectful and immature."

Sorry still seems like he's not into you ... a man that loves a woman military or not finds a way hell or hot water to contact her just saying.... be prepared does not sound right

 

i know he is.. he just deals with things in a strange way. he has a communication problem lol.

and thanks ladies for your input/opinions xo

Quoting Bustie:" Sorry still seems like he's not into you ... a man that loves a woman military or not finds a way hell or hot water to contact her just saying.... be prepared does not sound right  "

I think the saying is "hell or high water" lol But I agree with this.
I'm still curious what the "I'm dealing with stuff you'll never have to deal with" comment is all about?

Quoting MommyToWesley:" I think the saying is "hell or high water" lol But I agree with this. I'm still curious what the "I'm dealing with stuff you'll never have to deal with" comment is all about?"

Lmao yeah ... that is what I meant  

Quoting Marissa- 35 weeks:" i know he is.. he just deals with things in a strange way. he has a communication problem lol. and thanks ladies for your input/opinions xo"

...ok lol

Quoting MommyToWesley:" I think the saying is "hell or high water" lol But I agree with this. I'm still curious what the "I'm dealing with stuff you'll never have to deal with" comment is all about?"

i have no idea.. he's not really texting, so i don't want to annoy him and ask. he should just tell me imo lol

im sorry sweetie but if he is to busy to text back or text u first and ask you how u and the baby are doing then this problem will continue after the baby is born. my advise to you is. dont text him. i know its going to be hard but dont text him nor talk to him, let him come to you. and if he doesnt contact you within 3 days then im sorry to tell u this sweetie but ur better off with out him. i know its going to hurt but if he is not going to check up on you or his baby then hes honestly not that excited that you two are having a baby. just stop the heartach befor it gets worse and its just not you that he is hurting its the baby too he has to relize, the baby is his responsability too and if he is not being a bf and asking how u are and how his own child is doing then he will never do it after the baby is born. he might see it once or twice and then up and be gone for couple days more. im sorry this is blunt but its the trueth. and a mother to another mother u are way more valueble to have so much hurt and pain in ur mind and heart.

Quoting Toni Alves:" im sorry sweetie but if he is to busy to text back or text u first and ask you how u and the baby are ... [snip!] ... but its the trueth. and a mother to another mother u are way more valueble to have so much hurt and pain in ur mind and heart."

i haven't been texting him. i'm just waiting to see that when he does reply, what he'll say. i don't see him much as it is, and him being in the military.. he'll be gone for 6 months after the baby is born overseas which sucks even more. i'm not going to waste my time anymore though. he should be more concerned about me and his baby rather than himself and what 'he's going through' i'm not ready to be the last priority

Quoting Marissa- 35 weeks:" i haven't been texting him. i'm just waiting to see that when he does reply, what he'll say. i don't ... [snip!] ... be more concerned about me and his baby rather than himself and what 'he's going through' i'm not ready to be the last priority"

good keep that additude.