posting for a friend ;)

lol No seriously, I want to give her some advice and you guys always give me good smurf to say!

I'm very in a I-smurfing-hate-all-men so I feel like everything I've been saying has been really pessimistic and she's really wanting to hear something not so... well biased (ugly smurfing breakup, I just went through isn't helping).

She's dating this guy and they live together, she went through a miscarriage with him, they are really cute together, but lately they've been arguing alot.

I guess he went to her house and they had a good long talk and he said that he just wants a break. That he won't mess around with other girls, but asked her to wait for him.. he told her that he thinks the space will do them some good, and they'll still hang out, and talk just like always he just won't be spending the night every night, and he will be going out with his boys once in a while and told her to the do the same with her girls.

She is scared this is his way of breaking up with her nicely.

What do you guys think? And what should I should tell her? Cause honestly right now, I just want to tell her he is probably already smurfing someone on the side and he's a douchebag.. but again I'm a bit biased.

I agree he is breaking up with her. Then he will use her for sex.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" I agree he is breaking up with her. Then he will use her for sex."

I agree with this too. Taking a break is a way to put your relationship on hold so you can screw other people and eventually come back to the relationship.
But then again I'm biased too because I did this to DH back in high school lol  

Seems like he is breaking up with her.

DH and I went on a break like this in college for about 2 months. It was the worst two months of my life but it I'm so glad we did it. 7 years later and were still going strong. It made us appreciate each other

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" I agree he is breaking up with her. Then he will use her for sex."

This is what I think too!!! I wanna tell her so but in a nice way. lol

I had a guy suggests this to be lol Glad he did because I met my DH two 2-3 months later. If she waits for him she's an idiot.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:</b>" This is what I think too!!! I wanna tell her so but in a nice way. lol "</blockquote>




That's not always true. DH and I did not sleep with other people. We just needed time for ourselves you know? But we've also been together since we were 16 that kind of changed dynamics I think

No matter what his intentions, I have never had or seen a "break" that worked out for the couple. I'm not going to say he is just trying to sleep with her and other people, but the few times I have heard "I need a break", thats exactly what it meant. But the guys who tried to use that on me were douche bags anyways.

Quoting ILOVEWINE:" I agree he is breaking up with her. Then he will use her for sex."

This is what I think too. Even though its not always this way but in this case I think it is.