Do u think ur husband should pay a 25y/o's rent?

My husband has a 25 yr old daughter who has 2 kids and is pregnant right now. He gave her money for rent today and I dnt think he should have done that. He already pays child support for his 2 youngest kids on top of our bills and shouldnt have to pay for his grown child who has 2 kids. I cant get a christmas present or buy decorations because he used that money for her and he wont let me ask my own parents for a little bit of money to help us out. Our phone bill is due this week and hes saying now he wont have the money to pay it. He makes a good salary but his ex wife sucks him dry with child support hes paying college tuition for one of his kids and they still ask him for money so at the end of the month we're left with very little money and now hes paying this girl's rent. Its stressing me out and I dont know how much longer I can take this

Eta: I had 23 in the title but she's 25..

Sounds like he's just trying to take care of his own. *shrugs* Kids are still your kids no matter how old they are. He does need to make sure you guys are taken care of though.

and maybe he's had enough kids now?  

It's not "this girl" it's his DAUGHTER. And there is nothing wrong with a father helping out his daughter if she struggling 25 years old or 45 years old. People need help sometimes.
If he paid her rent for a year, that would be problem yes.

it's his daughter so I can see him wanting to help her and his grand kids out. but NO he should not be paying her rent or other bills on a regular basis. She is an adult and needs to act like one.

There's nothing wrong with him helping out, if that's what he wants to do.

And why did you call her "this girl"? She's isn't just some girl, she's his daughter.  

Did you know all of this before you got together with him? If so, you should of thought about that before getting involved with him. He had responsibilities before you came along.

"he's paying this girl's rent....."



LOL "this girl" is his daughter. Wtf???

and PS!!! His daughter will always come before you  

First off...you're married to a man with a daughter OLDER than you?

He's his daughter. She's in a tough spot so he decides to help her out so that his grandchildren don't end up on the streets (or with you), and you're mad because it means he can't get you a Christmas present?

your younger than his daughter  ... anyways it's up to him if he wants to pay her rent is HIS daughter, sounds like you resent her a bit

Quoting Vivian [♥]:" It's not "this girl" it's his DAUGHTER. And there is nothing wrong with a father helping out his daughter ... [snip!] ... 25 years old or 45 years old. People need help sometimes. If he paid her rent for a year, that would be problem yes."

       

I posted that after I read that you said the same thing!!!

Quoting ♥ Tatiana ™:" My husband has a 25 yr old daughter who has 2 kids and is pregnant right now. He gave her money for rent ... [snip!] ... girl's rent. Its stressing me out and I dont know how much longer I can take this Eta: I had 23 in the title but she's 25.."

It's not "this girl"... it's his daughter  . You're being kind of a hypocrite, since you want to ask your own parents for money, don't you think? Should they give their grown daughter money? If my kid needed help, I sure as hell would be there, and I would hope that if my spouse wasn't related, they could see how important it is to be supportive....

That is his DAUGHTER. His child. I don't care if she's an adult, in a parent's eyes, no matter how old your kid gets, they're always your baby. He's taking care of her - AND his grand children - by helping with rent. It's not like he's paying her rent every month, or like he's renting an apartment FOR her...he's just helping his child out through a hard time. Get over it and stop being jealous, he's putting first the person that SHOULD come first.

Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :" It's not "this girl"... it's his daughter  . You're being kind of a hypocrite, since you want to ask ... [snip!] ... would be there, and I would hope that if my spouse wasn't related, they could see how important it is to be supportive.... "

LMFAO. Totally forgot about that part

Also, I think that him helping out his daughter so she & his grand kids don't end up on the street is more important than you getting a Christmas present and decorations