re: Do u think ur husband should pay a 25y/o's rent?

Quoting Funny Feminist:" Not to add to the negativity, but he sounds controlling. Not letting you ask your parents for help? ... [snip!] ... But he's YOUR husband, so you need to sit down and talk finances if you really think this is a problem. Not ask our opinions. "

How is that controlling? Maybe he doesnt want to owe people money over things that arent necessary.

Quoting ♥ Tatiana ™:" Shes 25 with 2 children and is pregnant. She is always asking for money but wont ask the father of her children for money to help her out. She takes advantage of him and I just dnt like it."

Quite honestly, it's none of your business. That's his child, no matter how old she is or how many kids she has, and if he wants to help her out instead of buying you presents and decorations, that's HIS decision.

Haha just kidding   Read that wrong.

And yes, if she's having problems she should be able to ask her Dad for help.

This post just seems like you are trying to start stuff lol...very drama smelling so I am going to move along lol

Quoting Krystle ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" You're 28 years younger than him. ... [snip!] ... possibly have in common!?"</blockquote> Thinking the exact same thing... 28 years older is a big big big age gap..."

I read a previous post of hers and she's 22. He's 50 smurfing years old.

His biggest mistake seems to be that married a girl younger than his daughter who is clearly too immature to realize he can take care of his own damn daughter if he wants to. I'd hate to have a step mom who is younger than me and jealous lol.

Quoting ♥ Tatiana ™:" Shes 25 with 2 children and is pregnant. She is always asking for money but wont ask the father of her children for money to help her out. She takes advantage of him and I just dnt like it."

You don't live with her. You don't know what transpires between her childrens father and her. That's her business. She could be asking, and he's not giving her anything, happens, allllllllll the time.
So what do you do next when you're afraid you might be homeless soon? Ask your parents for help, which for me would be embarrassing. But you do what you have too.
I would hate to read this smurf if I were her, she was there for her dad 25 years before you were and you're just some jealous little gold digger trying to ruin their family dynamic.

Quoting ♥ Tatiana ™:" Shes 25 with 2 children and is pregnant. She is always asking for money but wont ask the father of her children for money to help her out. She takes advantage of him and I just dnt like it."

And? She is still his daughter. I doubt you would ever want him to let the child that you two share together be out on the streets. Wake up and realize that him helping her children staying in a steady shelter should be Christmas enough. I would be pissed if my husband ever split and married a chick like you who thought she was above our child.

Quoting ♥ Tatiana ™:" Thats the thing with her just because you do it once she's going to expect it all the time and shes going to make this practice I can see it already"

First you say she does it all the time now its she has done it once so it will become a habit?

Ugh this girl sounds just like my dads girlfriend   that's his daughter no matter what, he can do what he likes.

I would be disgusted if my husband wouldnt take care of his children from a previous relationship and they ended up in a shelter. Grown or not.

I commend you for taking on a guy older with so many kids, I could never do that..you look like a gorgeous woman!

<blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" You're 28 years younger than him. You're not taking advantage of him???? What could you two possibly have in common!?"</blockquote>


Now don't go there   There's a lot of big age gap relations that are genuine.

I'm not really trying to defend OP, but I know it would annoy me a little that I couldn't even get presents for my own kids or pay bills because he's giving all his money to his daughter.
Yes, its his daughter, but she's 25 yrs old, I think she needs to get her smurf together and quit relying on daddy to pay her bills.

Quoting Mj's Crazy Mama♥:" I don't think so, his child or not. She's 25 with 2 kids and another on the way and she can't afford ... [snip!] ... out. But then again, we would never ask them to pay our rent every month...especially knowing they aren't able to afford it."

She didn't say every month, she said this one month. You don't know what the situation is...maybe something happened this month that left her in a tight spot. It happens.

BTW I am 22 married pregnant and still get monthly check from my dad and always will don't need to at all... husband has a great job the check ain't smurf LMAO to me could care less

but ehh still get it ^_^