re: Do u think ur husband should pay a 25y/o's rent?

Quoting T-Swizzle+2:" Sounds like he's just trying to take care of his own. *shrugs* Kids are still your kids no matter how old they are. He does need to make sure you guys are taken care of though. "

Shes 25 with 2 children and is pregnant. She is always asking for money but wont ask the father of her children for money to help her out. She takes advantage of him and I just dnt like it.

Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:" Also, I think that him helping out his daughter so she & his grand kids don't end up on the street is more important than you getting a Christmas present and decorations   "

AGREED     

Quoting Rafael's Mommy ♥:" Also, I think that him helping out his daughter so she & his grand kids don't end up on the street is more important than you getting a Christmas present and decorations   "

       !!!!!!!

  at "this girl"

Thats his daughter and his grandbabies, you make sacrifices for your children. Christmas presents arent important, having a roof over their heads is what is important. When your baby is an adult and living on their own you will feel the same, you'll help out if you can. Parenting doesnt stop when they turn 18 and move out.

Quoting ♥ Tatiana ™:" Shes 25 with 2 children and is pregnant. She is always asking for money but wont ask the father of her children for money to help her out. She takes advantage of him and I just dnt like it."

You're 28 years younger than him. You're not taking advantage of him???? What could you two possibly have in common!?

His ex-wife sucks him dry with child support...umm, well, that's what happens when you have 3 kids with someone. Sounds to me like you're jealous that he's putting his kids first...

Maybe you should find a sugar daddy without any kids.

Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:" You're 28 years younger than him. You're not taking advantage of him???? What could you two possibly have in common!?"

This....

Quoting ♥ Tatiana ™:" Shes 25 with 2 children and is pregnant. She is always asking for money but wont ask the father of her children for money to help her out. She takes advantage of him and I just dnt like it."

Sounds like you guys should ALL stop procreating  

Not to add to the negativity, but he sounds controlling. Not letting you ask your parents for help?

I'm not judging. You live the life you live. But he's YOUR husband, so you need to sit down and talk finances if you really think this is a problem. Not ask our opinions.

<blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" You're 28 years younger than him. You're not taking advantage of him???? What could you two possibly have in common!?"</blockquote>




Thinking the exact same thing...
28 years older is a big big big age gap...

Quoting Lizplustwo:" His ex-wife sucks him dry with child support...umm, well, that's what happens when you have 3 kids with ... [snip!] ... Sounds to me like you're jealous that he's putting his kids first... Maybe you should find a sugar daddy without any kids."

Preach it.

I see no problem my dad and stepmom are paying 135 of my rent to keep me and the kids close to them but thats only til im done with school but make sure shes going to school or something not just sitting home I know its tough to raise kids but its just like her me time just not at a friends or a club but just be happy that theres a next year for presents and stuff...

Quoting Lizplustwo:" His ex-wife sucks him dry with child support...umm, well, that's what happens when you have 3 kids with ... [snip!] ... Sounds to me like you're jealous that he's putting his kids first... Maybe you should find a sugar daddy without any kids."

 

Quoting furrbabiesmommy:" it's his daughter so I can see him wanting to help her and his grand kids out. but NO he should not be paying her rent or other bills on a regular basis. She is an adult and needs to act like one."

Thats the thing with her just because you do it once she's going to expect it all the time and shes going to make this practice I can see it already