Quoting Expecting Emma:" Ok I really need some advice. My husband is in the military.. After he got home after being gone for ... [snip!] ... him hiding things and I think he would just end up smoking again and be all paranoid. I don't want to be the wife police lol"
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" You can maybe get him a real good ecig. It have the nicotine in there, just without the smell and smoke. ... [snip!] ... get him to quit until he is ready to. You can make it harder for him, but he will just sneak it behind your back. Sorry. "
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" How can you tell him the stress thing is bullsmurf? It maybe started that way but cigarettes become addicting ... [snip!] ... very quickly. You cant make him stop, he has to be ready and badgering him about it wont help, it will stress him out."I felt like it was because he told me he only smoked one or two a day and only because of stress. I guess I just want him to be straight with me about it and I don't like that he is all secretive about it.
Quoting iLL-Legal Alien:" To all of this. My husband had smoked since his teen years and the military made it worse. He tried ... [snip!] ... how stressful it is to be in the military so I knew I had to be understanding. Also the military does help if he wants to quit."
Quoting Samanthaaaa ♥:" If SO started smoking I would leave him. He says the same thing about me, we both think smoking and cigarettes ... [snip!] ... around it long enough, no thanks. I can't even go to the casino that often because the smell of cigarettes makes me so sick."
Quoting Expecting Emma:" Yah I know he isn't addicted yet. We went to FL for a week and he didn't smoke once. What bothers me ... [snip!] ... asking him because I know he is always super stressed but the smell when he just gets home is nauseating. I just don't know : ("
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" He didnt smoke that you know of... ...and even if he didnt, it was probably on the back of his mind. ... [snip!] ... time you mention any factors of smoking to a smoker, they want the cig. It isnt just a physical addiction, but mostly mental. "
Quoting Expecting Emma:" Oh and what really pisses me off. At the party, One of his smoking buddies was saying how Matt had tried to quit and he just got him to keep smoking. Why would you tell me that?"