porn after sex?

me and SO did the dirty last night and I came on his computer to check my BG and saw in his history that was open in the left that while I was upstairs sleeping, he was watching porn while I thought he was watching his show. So instead of coming up to watch a movie with me like I asked, he was downstairs wacking off.

how do you ladies feel about your men doing their thing only an hour after you's smurfed?

I don't know how to feel about this lol was I not enough?? I watch porn just as much as the next girl but not after I've been satisfied by him.

merp.

ehh, I probably wouldn't think anything of it. My husband watches porn a lot more than I do.

I'd be smurfing PISSED and feel embarrassed to be completely honest!

maybe he was still horny and didn't want to bother you while you were sleeping?

mine watches porn sometimes but i haven't been having a lot of sex with him during this pregnancy, so idc lol.

I'd be a little hurt to be honest. I don't mind porn at all. But if he wanted to have a second round he should have at least asked you. And then if you said no, taken care of it himself.

Quoting Heather ♥:" maybe he was still horny and didn't want to bother you while you were sleeping? mine watches porn sometimes but i haven't been having a lot of sex with him during this pregnancy, so idc lol."

yea but he knew I wasn't really sleeping. I went up to try and go to sleep because I wanted to watch a movie and he wanted to "watch his show" (smallville - he's rewatching the whole series) and in the history it says for a whole half hour he was watching porn.

I watch porn a lot too, and I don't care that he watches it - but right after we smurf?? really? he knows I'm ALWAYS up for another round. no matter how tired. lol

Porn after sex would not make me a happy camper. Not cool.

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" yea but he knew I wasn't really sleeping. I went up to try and go to sleep because I wanted to watch ... [snip!] ... care that he watches it - but right after we smurf?? really? he knows I'm ALWAYS up for another round. no matter how tired. lol"

ask him about it.

Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:" I'd be smurfing PISSED and feel embarrassed to be completely honest!"

think I should say something to him? and if so, what would I even say? "heyI saw your browsing history and uh........................."

then he's going to think I purposely opened his browsing history.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Porn after sex would not make me a happy camper. Not cool. "

okay I wasn't really mad at first, but now I am.

I would be hurt that he didnt come to me to ask if I wanted to go again.


But maybe he thought you would be too tired or too sore(I get really sore after sex) but asking is nice instead of just assuming.

I wouldn't even know how to approach this or what to say. Now I'm mad he wacked off instead of letting me get it in. Instead of watching a movie with me, like he knows I wanted to, he sat downstairs watching porn just after we had sex.

and we have sex almost every single day.

I would be relieved that he didnt ask me to have sex with him again lol

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" okay I wasn't really mad at first, but now I am. "

We don't even watch porn or anything in our relationship, but even if we did......why not just say you want to go again?

I would honestly just bring it up. Say - "look, I know you went downstairs and watched porn after we had sex last night, whats up with that?", don't even bother beating around the bush. Either he gives an satisfactory answer or if not, he will know that it's not something that your ok with.

I personally wouldn't care. Watching porn to me isn't an issue at all unless it's consuming a lot of his time or taking away time from family.. ect.