re: porn after sex?

<blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" Lol I'd probably laugh too. But no... if I'm home and available I'd like to be asked to have sex with ... [snip!] ... him jump on my laptop to watch another girls tits. If I'm not home that's completely different............................. "</blockquote>




Well yes that is different, it just came across as he always had to ask. Lol

See I don't care regardless if I am home, as long as I get what I want and need it doesn't matter to me. But our sexual relationship is very different compared to others. Lol  

Quoting I'm Marbles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" Lol I'd probably laugh too. But ... [snip!] ... get what I want and need it doesn't matter to me. But our sexual relationship is very different compared to others. Lol  "

Yeah everyone is different. I'm glad your sexual relationship isn't as smurfed up as mine.

EDIT: I should probably add an lol in there, that seemed pretty bitchy lol  

Quoting Vodka Knockers:" I figured it was something along those lines. Well, I'm going to quit being a lazy twerp and get to ... [snip!] ... for welfare using only accurate information, no personal opinion to teach us to be 'open minded'. It's pretty dope thus far."

that actually sounds really cool! good luck!

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:</b>"   I'd feel the same way. and that's kinda how I feel now. He's sitting right next to me and I'm debating whether or not to say anything. I really want to. "</blockquote>




I would bring it up calmly if it is bothering you.

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" that actually sounds really cool! good luck!"

Many thanks. It's a big chunk of our final grade lol.
But DAMN I made some excellent points in the one I did so far arguing against drug testing for welfare. Went into it with the opinion of "Meh, test them, whatevs." and then actually saw statistics and was like "WTF, why are they even considering this?"

<blockquote><b>Quoting LolaMcKitten:</b>" No, because if someone says they feel differently or handles the situation differently, you act like they are wrong or you feel bad for their SO. "</blockquote>




It was just how it was coming off to me. She explained it and I received the meaning she was originally trying to say.

<blockquote><b>Quoting LolaMcKitten:</b>" LOL omg...."</blockquote>




 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" I figured it was something along those lines. Well, I'm going to quit being a lazy twerp and get to ... [snip!] ... for welfare using only accurate information, no personal opinion to teach us to be 'open minded'. It's pretty dope thus far."</blockquote>




If you want to can you send me it when you are done with it? I would love to read it!
And good luck.

<blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:</b>" Yeah everyone is different. I'm glad your sexual relationship isn't as smurfed up as mine. EDIT: I should probably add an lol in there, that seemed pretty bitchy lol  "</blockquote>




Meh, I have a tough skin I don't take things to heart, but yeah we have a lot of fun with each other. Just in general, we prank each other and bottom line we enjoy each other.

Quoting I'm Marbles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" I figured it was something along those ... [snip!] ... If you want to can you send me it when you are done with it? I would love to read it! And good luck."

Pfft, love to. It's always good to get an extra pair of eyes.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" Pfft, love to. It's always good to get an extra pair of eyes."</blockquote>




Awesome.

OP you said he used to be able to go for more than one round? Have you thought he might be trying to 'train' himself to have multiples again with porn? Its actually a common training technique to try and masterbate soon after having sex.

<blockquote><b>Quoting The (super kinky) Master:</b>" OP you said he used to be able to go for more than one round? Have you thought he might be trying to ... [snip!] ... to have multiples again with porn? Its actually a common training technique to try and masterbate soon after having sex."</blockquote>


Yeaaa I don't think so lol we haven't gone more than twice (on a regular basis) in over a year. He's never interested.

I did confront him. He first lied to me about the porn, then said he did bit then went off me in about how I'm annoying and something is always bothering me and I need to shut up about smurf. I'm just done. Every time I confront him about something he goes off the wall and can't just sit like an adult and talk. Even if he thinks its stupid, talk to me? Reassure me? Cuz when the tables are turned he can go on forever about something I did and I sit there and listen, no matter how stupid the matter he Is talking about. He's an smurf. And right now I hate him.

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" I did confront him. He first lied to me about the porn, then said he did bit then went off me in about ... [snip!] ... did and I sit there and listen, no matter how stupid the matter he Is talking about. He's an smurf. And right now I hate him."

Have you tried couples counseling?
Definitely not trying to defend him, but 'turning the tables' is a defense mechanism I've noticed DH use, a lot. When I pointed it out in an argument, he then turned the tables again and tried to point out things I apparently use as a defense mechanism that I won't even acknowledge, it was a low blow.
He's gotten a lot better about it since we've been in marriage counseling, but he also needs therapy himself considering marriage counseling will only go so far.