re: porn after sex?

Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" I would be hurt that he didnt come to me to ask if I wanted to go again. But maybe he thought you ... [snip!] ... maybe he thought you would be too tired or too sore(I get really sore after sex) but asking is nice instead of just assuming."

he knows thats never the case. usually I am the one to want to go again. he knew I wasn't really asleep because he were texting back and forth and i came down to smoke a cigg. I just told him I was going upstairs to try and sleep but didn't actually fall asleep till a little while after I went up

yeah, i'm good after one round. i get pissed when he wants marathon sex and wont let me sleep  

Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" I would be hurt that he didnt come to me to ask if I wanted to go again. But maybe he thought you ... [snip!] ... maybe he thought you would be too tired or too sore(I get really sore after sex) but asking is nice instead of just assuming."

 

This also.

Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" I would be relieved that he didnt ask me to have sex with him again lol"

haha like I said, I'm always the one to want to go again! he just never can anymore! a few years ago he could go like crazy. but now - merp! nada! I'm lucky if once in a while I get it twice in one night.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nichole+3girls:</b>" yeah, i'm good after one round. i get pissed when he wants marathon sex and wont let me sleep  "</blockquote>




I am the SAAAAAME way. I mean smurf once is enough. More than that and he's just being needy.

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" think I should say something to him? and if so, what would I even say? "heyI saw your browsing history ... [snip!] ... already opened. I could lie and say I opened it to look for a website I was on last night. But when I'm mad I suck at lying. "

Lol I'd probably be a smart ass and say something like, "did I not satisfy you or something? Did you really need to go watch porn after I just smurfed you?" or something. Honestly I would be so offended. SO doesn't let me know when he watching porn. I don't care because I watch porn almost every night when he's at work. It just makes me sad sometimes lol even if he's being considerate...... Like I'm not good enough for him

Maybe I misunderstood what you said, but I just thought of this.

Are you sure it was open from when you were sleeping? Could he have opened it prior to you guys having sex? Maybe he was watching it before hand...?

I may be way off. Sorry.

Quoting Meg ♥:" I personally wouldn't care. Watching porn to me isn't an issue at all unless it's consuming a lot of his time or taking away time from family.. ect. "

It's never an issue to me either. I don't really care, at all. But right after we smurf? and you couldn't ask me to go again? kinda makes me feel like what I gave him wasn't enough he had to go to the boobtube so quickly.

I mean, if it were a few hours after we did it and he was bored - yea cool idc. But it was only an hour, and I thought he was watching his show and I wanted to watch a movie with him since it feels like the only alone time we get together is smurfing.

Quoting Meg ♥:" Maybe I misunderstood what you said, but I just thought of this. Are you sure it was open from when ... [snip!] ... Could he have opened it prior to you guys having sex? Maybe he was watching it before hand...? I may be way off. Sorry. "

his history has times.

You got what you wanted why are upset?
It's not like he's watching porn and not having sex with you.

I don't see the problem.

Quoting I'm Marbles:" You got what you wanted why are upset? It's not like he's watching porn and not having sex with you. I don't see the problem."

I wasn't upset, I was asking how everyone else would feel. I didn't start feeling some way until all the other girls started posting their responses. and I didn't get everything that I wanted - I coulda been smurfed twice and not once lol

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" It's never an issue to me either. I don't really care, at all. But right after we smurf? and you couldn't ... [snip!] ... watching his show and I wanted to watch a movie with him since it feels like the only alone time we get together is smurfing. "

I understand.

I suppose, in your shoes, I would confront him about it. Being very gentle about the subject and situation trying to not cause more feathers to be ruffled... if that makes sense.

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" his history has times. "

Gotcha. Mine doesn't show times.

Quoting shelbylynn [24 WEEKS!]:" Lol I'd probably be a smart ass and say something like, "did I not satisfy you or something? Did you ... [snip!] ... when he's at work. It just makes me sad sometimes lol even if he's being considerate...... Like I'm not good enough for him"

That's what would get me, too. There are certain, like....rules? I guess? Bad way of wording it. Like, if your going to - don't be a dick about it, KWIM? Don't put porn over having sex with me, don't have sex with me then go watch it like I wasn't enough, especially when you know I like going again - that kind of thing, it's inconsiderate.

Quoting ♥ logan's mommy:" I wasn't upset, I was asking how everyone else would feel. I didn't start feeling some way until all ... [snip!] ... girls started posting their responses. and I didn't get everything that I wanted - I coulda been smurfed twice and not once lol"