Quoting Manda♥Bella:" to me a baby is a term that can be used from conception to around 2yrs old. I consider an unborn to ... [snip!] ... as a fetus. I considered the child i CHOSE to abort a baby, and i still dont think i'm a baby killer. A baby is just a term..."
That's where I am with it.
I also get annoyed that whenever I have an u/s they ask me how many time si have been pregnat, how many living children I have, how many abortion, how many miscarriages...and the reason I am annoyed is that they NEVER ask details regarding the miscarraiges, as in - did I have a D&C or not, etc - which would be the ONLY reason to ask about natural or elective abortion, because the assumption is that an elective abortion could cause damage (such as Asherman's syndrome) to the uterus potentially - but so can a D&C for spontaneous abortion....so i do get annoyed that they don't ask. I shouldn't I guess because I haven't actually had a D&C - but I guess I still think it is bias somehow NOT to ask.