Quoting Trent & Kyle's Mama:" i felt detached from my second too. It took me a while to adjust. I think it was because he spent so ... [snip!] ... even feel like he was mine once i brought him home. It makes me feel horrible to say that, but now I we have a huge bond!!"
My second was a NICU baby too. But after we got her sickness under control and then my sickness under control we finally started to bond. Now she's 1 1/2 and we couldn't be closer
I'm just scared of feeling like that again with a new baby. I don't want to go through that or to put another child through that again.