re: New need advice

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" She's smurfing 14.  "

seriously at least it wasnt all caps or the weird half spelling crazy smurf that i cant even pretend to type like.

OP- talk to your parents, weigh all your options.

Abortion or adoption, hun. At 14 parenting is going to be impossible.

<blockquote><b>Quoting HUgabearrr:</b>" learn spelling, grammar and sentance structure. you'll never get a good job."</blockquote>

Coming from someone who just spelled sentence wrong  
*snort*

Quoting bbbt:" Abortion or adoption, hun. At 14 parenting is going to be impossible."

Its not impossible but its a very hard road and she will need tons of support.

Quoting Mayhem.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting HUgabearrr:</b>" learn spelling, grammar and sentance structure. ... [snip!] ... structure. you'll never get a good job."</blockquote> Coming from someone who just spelled sentence wrong   *snort*"

   

IF you want to pm me to talk that is fine. I hope you make the best decision for YOU and your baby! If you have the loving support of your family, and you want to keep this baby you need to know that your teenage years will be gone. No partying, sleepover with your girlfriends, none of that. It will be up all night with a crying teething baby, crying toddler, etc. I just hope you realize how serious this is. I wish you the best with whatever decision you make for you and your baby  

I told my uncles girlfriend who I live with they said if I wanna keep it they would help me. Idk how I would go to school and all that stuff with a baby tho I don't wanna abort though and idk if I could give it away I'm so confused nothing is a good option

I would definitely not be keeping that baby.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Trent & Kyle's Mama:</b>" IF you want to pm me to talk that is fine. I hope you make the best decision for YOU and your baby! If ... [snip!] ... etc. I just hope you realize how serious this is. I wish you the best with whatever decision you make for you and your baby  "</blockquote>


  

Quoting mellie98:" I told my uncles girlfriend who I live with they said if I wanna keep it they would help me. Idk how ... [snip!] ... that stuff with a baby tho I don't wanna abort though and idk if I could give it away I'm so confused nothing is a good option"

Think of the kind of life the baby will have if you keep it. Think of the life you will have. Talk to others who have been in your situation. 14 is very young and you have your whole life to have kids. No choice is an easy one at this point

Quoting mellie98:" I told my uncles girlfriend who I live with they said if I wanna keep it they would help me. Idk how ... [snip!] ... that stuff with a baby tho I don't wanna abort though and idk if I could give it away I'm so confused nothing is a good option"

What about an open adoption?? You would still receive pictures every now and then and maybe a visit every now and then. I just don't want to see you losing your teenage years. It will be so hard for you.I am not trying to tell you what to do, I am trying to help. What goes through your mind when you think about keeping the baby?

Quoting mellie98:" I told my uncles girlfriend who I live with they said if I wanna keep it they would help me. Idk how ... [snip!] ... that stuff with a baby tho I don't wanna abort though and idk if I could give it away I'm so confused nothing is a good option"

You should look and see if they have programs for teen moms who want to continue school in your area, like i said i was 14 too when i got pregnant, so it isnt impossible but you will need a lot of support and know that you yourself still have a lot of growing up to do, if i could take it back i would have waited..

Just so you know, I am 23 with 2 kids and I get so overwhelmed sometimes. It isn't easy by no means. I couldn't imagine doing it at 14 years old. There is no way I could have done it. I was almost 21 when I had my first, and it was rough...I worked and had a stable home and a husband to help and it was still rough.

is the father in the picture?

<blockquote><b>Quoting mellie98:</b>" I told my uncles girlfriend who I live with they said if I wanna keep it they would help me. Idk how ... [snip!] ... that stuff with a baby tho I don't wanna abort though and idk if I could give it away I'm so confused nothing is a good option"</blockquote>

Well that's good that they support any decision. It is not going to be easy. You do have to give up being a teenager. Do they have schools in your area with daycare? Or an alternative Ed you can attend? If not you will need daycare for your child so u can finish school. If you do one Thing for your child make it finishing school. That's going to be the best thing you can do for him/her. Your local Department of human services or whatever it's called in your state can help you with food, daycare, etc. and get on wic ASAP. They have a lot of resources they can hook you up with as well.