I'm miserable.

I'm so stressed out...I just want to skip smurfing christmas. I feel like a scrooge...but I don't want to buy everyone in my family presents!! ( I posted about this once before) I want to save money....I bust my ass at a job I smurfing hate and I still have no money!!! To top it off our electic is due, our car insurance is way past due..got a cancellation notice and my dumbass SO just keeps saying "don't worry about it"...like everyting is rainbows and butterflies. AND...I think I really hate him. He has a major anger issue....and funny thing is that he got a book about anger (like how to control it and smurf) and he seems to be trying to work on his anger but sometimes he slips and gets pissed for no reason but I am so smurfing miserable lately. It's almost like his anger is going into me.....I don't know what's going on....i just know I am smurfing miserable.


I need wine.

Make gifts. Its much cheaper. DS and I are making all our Christmas gifts this year.

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" Make gifts. Its much cheaper. DS and I are making all our Christmas gifts this year."

well I thought about it....but I think only my two best friends would appreciate it. We bought mainly for all our neices....we have 6 little girls in our family that are really young. 7, two 5 yr olds, 3 yr old, 2 yr old and my baby.

go to dollar tree and by cards. .50.

ugh tell me about it we have 10 neices and nephews to by for on top of my DS

Quoting Radame N Angela Robles:" ugh tell me about it we have 10 neices and nephews to by for on top of my DS"

i kept saying that next year i just want to buy for us and our child...like when she gets older i wont be able to afford presents for her and everyone else!!

Quoting Christina Getty:" i kept saying that next year i just want to buy for us and our child...like when she gets older i wont be able to afford presents for her and everyone else!!"

My Dh always says why cant we just pick a family and buy for them instead of all lol

We don't buy for my siblings at all, what my family does is every thanksgiving we draw names to see who has which kid to buy for and they each have a $10 limit. It helps a lot especially since we are very tight on money right now

Quoting ~Stephany~:" go to dollar tree and by cards. .50."

 

Quoting Lin Brown:" We don't buy for my siblings at all, what my family does is every thanksgiving we draw names to see who ... [snip!] ... has which kid to buy for and they each have a $10 limit. It helps a lot especially since we are very tight on money right now"

i thought about this....i wonder if they would go for that..*sigh* probably not. My SO's aunt is having a christmas party today BUT you have to bring two presents so we can trade or some smurf idk....and I put my foot down...I was like..I just freaked out over presents last night..we are not bringing presents there too. Next year...I am only getting smurf for my daughter...

Quoting Christina Getty:" I'm so stressed out...I just want to skip smurfing christmas. I feel like a scrooge...but I don't want ... [snip!] ... almost like his anger is going into me.....I don't know what's going on....i just know I am smurfing miserable. I need wine."

Get stuff for the kids. Adults should understand. My BIL is broke and doesn't have any money since he divorced his ex. We still get gifts for his boys even though he doesn't buy for us or our kids.