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We were separated for almost a year. It took me a very long time to get over everything he did to our son and I but he has completely changed. We were married for 2 years. We have been married for 5 years.

my grandparents were married and divorced 4 times over 20 years lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting →Ebahϖ:</b>" my grandparents were married and divorced 4 times over 20 years lol"</blockquote>




Omg lol

My DH and I were split for a year after our 1st was born before we got married. It was very hard, but I think if we would have married and not split we would have ended in divorce and probably hating each other.

I haven't but my parents have. They were married for almost 15 years then divorced. Both married other people and divorced. After 10 years and being divorced and all that jazz they got back together and have been married for 5 years.

My husband and I dated throughout high school, broke up during college, got back together after college and have been married for 4 years now. We both grew up a lot since high school and I think that really helped our relationship a lot. Now we have a beautiful 3 year old son and a little girl that should be here very soon.. couldn't be happier.

thank you all for sharing.

I've sort of had this experience with two exes... once where it was the biggest mistake of my life. Seriously. And then once where it worked out amazingly and we are extremely happy and still together to this day. My biggest advice would be trust your gut. If his "changes" seem too good to be true then they probably are. Take things extremely slowly.

Me & my bf were technically split up for 2 1/2 yrs(although we never stopped sleeping together or spending time together)during the majority of those 2 1/2 yrs I was under the impression that since we were still spending lots of time together & having sex that we were "working" on ourselves b4 we got back together, which I come to find out w in 6 months or so of when we actually got back together that that was not his belief bcuz he had a gf(which i was unaware of til that relationship was over)at one point,slept w ALOT of other women & even got his "best friend" pregnant,which I had suspected was his the whole time but both of them kept telling me no she wasn't(he even kept it from his family)so it took me a long time to move on...I found out about his other daughter bout 2 1/2 months b4 we got back together & that was when I decided that enough was enough, that he wasn't going to change & that he was actually getting worse & worse. So I moved on....it wasn't until I had thought I had found someone else & texted my ex to tell him that I had found someone else & that anything that was between us was now over, that my ex decided that he wanted me back...and because we had 2 children together I felt that I needed to give it one final & last shot...we had a honeymoon period of like 6-8wks where everything was PERFECT, and then we went thru a 3-4 month period where it was worse than it had ever been b4(r fighting), & since then we've had r ups & downs but I'm very much in love w him and I do NOT regret getting back together...I look forward to making each day better & happier than the day b4.