re: What would you say

Quoting Sock Lady:"      Having someone who is supportive can make a big difference in his life."

I just hope that everyone else either finally gets some sense about the matter or they support him. I have to talk to DH because I don't want him to act weird.

Wow, I am so sorry you are having to deal with that. I think you should take the time to speak to him about his feelings and then talk to the two sets of parents. Tell them this is very serious and there is no joking going on here and whomever gets custody has to be willing to handle it with respect.

Just because he doesnt feel comfortable in his own skin doesnt mean that he is homosexual although I understand they wont see it that way.

Quoting ☮[The Mrs.].™:" I just hope that everyone else either finally gets some sense about the matter or they support him. I have to talk to DH because I don't want him to act weird."

I hope so too. Good luck hun!

Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:" Wow, I am so sorry you are having to deal with that. I think you should take the time to speak to him ... [snip!] ... he doesnt feel comfortable in his own skin doesnt mean that he is homosexual although I understand they wont see it that way. "

    

I think I'm going to take him to dinner and let him lead the convo one day this week because I don't know what to really say.

Quoting ☮[The Mrs.].™:" I think I'm going to take him to dinner and let him lead the convo one day this week because I don't know what to really say."

That is a good idea hun. Don't force it. Just let him talk. I'm sure having you sit there and listen to him and being supportive will make him feel a bit better...and just knowing that someone cares and will accept him for who he is will mean the world to him.

Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:" Wow, I am so sorry you are having to deal with that. I think you should take the time to speak to him ... [snip!] ... he doesnt feel comfortable in his own skin doesnt mean that he is homosexual although I understand they wont see it that way. "

I definitely want to talk to him, I just don't know exactly what to say... I guess because I've never been there before.