husbands

I don't know what is up with my hubby. I finally get a friend that I like and we click so well. Her husband always worked with my husband. Now her hubby got another job now that he has to leave for 2 weeks and then come abck for 9 days. We always texted and called all teh time. Now he keeps on asking me whats up with you and your girl? I said nothing why? He said that we are too close if anything is going on with us? I said no way. I don't go that way. He checked my phone and so our texting. I know is becasue he puts his phone upside down and I don't. I woke up in the morning and I saw my phone upside down. So he confronted me on that. I wanted to find ways up having more fun in our bedroom and I went to a store called spencers. I was texting her back and forth to sww ehat I should get. Girls usually talk to each other you know. I have been here in florida for 9 years and I never had a friend like her. Her and I became best friends within three months. But anyways, I don't know if he can trust me or what? He doesn't like me when I hear his conversation with his ex wife. I hate it with passion. But they tak about there son. He is 19 years old. I always ask him why don't you like me to be there when you talk to her? He tells me it's not my business. Hell yes it is. I am married to you. But you can go to mine. Hell no!!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommy of Joshua:</b>" I don't know what is up with my hubby. I finally get a friend that I like and we click so well. Her husband ... [snip!] ... you talk to her? He tells me it's not my business. Hell yes it is. I am married to you. But you can go to mine. Hell no!!!!"</blockquote>




Wtf? Um I my husband pulled that I'd be gone. My sister an I tell each other everything.... Yes I mean every little thing. I have a best friend that also knows just about everything. It's the way women are and he should know that by now. And you not being allowed to hear anything that goes on with the ex wife is way too weird for me. I don't put up with that kind of crap from a man especially if he has a double standard.

Quoting mommy of Joshua:" I don't know what is up with my hubby. I finally get a friend that I like and we click so well. Her husband ... [snip!] ... you talk to her? He tells me it's not my business. Hell yes it is. I am married to you. But you can go to mine. Hell no!!!!"

Honestly? Sounds like a jealous, insecure douche bag. Women need girl friends, plain & simple. Doesn't mean you're screwing her! Tell him to get over it. That's just ridiculous. He's 19 and has an ex wife already?????

Quoting ModernMan'sHustle ♥:" Honestly? Sounds like a jealous, insecure douche bag. Women need girl friends, plain & simple. ... [snip!] ... Doesn't mean you're screwing her! Tell him to get over it. That's just ridiculous. He's 19 and has an ex wife already?????"

I think the son may be 19.

Quoting ModernMan'sHustle ♥:" Honestly? Sounds like a jealous, insecure douche bag. Women need girl friends, plain & simple. ... [snip!] ... Doesn't mean you're screwing her! Tell him to get over it. That's just ridiculous. He's 19 and has an ex wife already?????"

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting ModernMan'sHustle ♥:</b>" Honestly? Sounds like a jealous, insecure douche bag. Women need girl friends, plain & simple. ... [snip!] ... Doesn't mean you're screwing her! Tell him to get over it. That's just ridiculous. He's 19 and has an ex wife already?????"</blockquote>



The sons 19 not the husband.

yes I am 12 years younger then he is. I only had three guys in my life. I got so freaken pissed off when I always have to speak to her. He siad after he pays child support he doesn't have to talk to her anymore. I looked at him and I said yea right. I wish you would but that will neverhappen. If he has to go to the hospital or anything she has to call you or he calls you. They live three hours away from us. He comes over only during summer and sometimes for thanksgiving. But what my best friend and I were talking about was using sex toys with one another. I would like to use them but he doesn't. and he told me. I'm not going to be nasty or anything but the only thing he likes is taking pics of me with sexy lingerie or anything. But I think he knows now about my friend and I. He just told me not to talk about us sex wise with anyone. I said yes just to shut him up

not the son. my hubby has an ex wife

Quoting ♥Ashley♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ModernMan'sHustle ♥:</b>" Honestly? Sounds like a jealous, ... [snip!] ... over it. That's just ridiculous. He's 19 and has an ex wife already?????"</blockquote> The sons 19 not the husband."

Ohh... I missed that too...

but still, hell no would my SO check my smurf and make me "be open" about everything with him and then hide things from me. No way.

smurf do I ahve to sleep with my phone underneath my pillow now. I don't want to feel like that.

Quoting mommy of Joshua:" smurf do I ahve to sleep with my phone underneath my pillow now. I don't want to feel like that."

Put a stop to it. Tell him not to touch your phone again, ever. If he doesn't trust you, then he should leave.

I will be talking to him again soon. Now he knows how it feels when I was younger and with him. I was jealous when I knew he had a child and an ex. I didn't know he was going to really talk to her all the time and go places with there son. I never did anything to him. Never had an ex and never cheated on him. He just thinks now that he is getting older and I'm still young that I will leave him for someone else. I married him why would I be like that?

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Put a stop to it. Tell him not to touch your phone again, ever. If he doesn't trust you, then he should leave. "

Whoa. I would just have a discussion about how that made you feel. To be honest if my hubby told me to not touch is phone again ever I would suspect something was up (not good in her situation when he already thinks she is swinging both ways). Maybe talk about how she is just a really good friend and how if he isn't comfortable with you discussing your sex life with others you won't. Being married is about respecting each others wishes. Maybe nicely mention how you feel about the ex-wife at the same time. If you want that respect show it to him first.

Quoting ModernMan'sHustle ♥:" Honestly? Sounds like a jealous, insecure douche bag. Women need girl friends, plain & simple. ... [snip!] ... Doesn't mean you're screwing her! Tell him to get over it. That's just ridiculous. He's 19 and has an ex wife already?????"

im 20 and have a ex husband smurf happens

I have sat him down so many times and talked about his ex wife. I always wanted to say something to her but he wouldn't ever let me cause he tells me don't step to her level. for me to be the bigger person. So I ahve. she has tried so many times to break us apart but our love was too strong for that. But he gets pissed or walk a way while he is on the phone with her. It seems like he is hiding smurf from me. But once I talk to other people on a downlow he thinks i'm doing something behind his back. I'm not like going to so many people in the streets and talking to them about our sex life. I ahve only one person and thats my best friend to talk to. But i'm not telling her what possitions we are doing or what he is doing to me etc. I just asked her opinion on some things.