if you have had more than one loss
posted 8th Dec
If you have had more than one loss, was it harder to decide to ttc again? I feel like after my first loss it was easier to decide to try again because I thought that the mc was a fluke or something and that I would be able to carry the next pregnancy to term. Now after my second mc Im not so sure We still want a LO very bad but I cant help but feel like if I try again, Ill just end up with another mc. How long did you wait before ttc?
quoteposted 8th Dec
My first time pregnant was a molar pregnancy... We waited three months, and then I was pregnant again... Our daughter was born without kidneys... She passed about about an hour later... We waited three more months and then we were finally blessed with a healthy baby boy... I was scared stressed all the time... After him, I had a chemical pregnancy, and after that two other healthy pregnancies... We just had faith god would bless us...
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I lost my pregnancies before i had 2 healthy kids... I started ttc July 2012 I got my mirena out and in September I had all the symptoms and negative test. Went to the dr and got dignosed with a Teratoma Tumor, lost my right ovary but was told my left is doing well and I'm ovulating every month. Still no luck its very upsetting but if u get ur positive its very much worth it!
quoteposted 8th Dec
It wasn't hard to me to decide to TTC again. I had 3 loses(the least being 1 month prior to my LO) and then had a successful and uneventful pregnancy.
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I had one loss , one healthy pregnancy, one loss..... We're ttc now if I was to experience another loss Idk if I could to do it again... I guess it would depend on how old I was then. I'm not planning any children after 30.
quoteposted 10th Dec
I've had five m/c and am now in a dilemma as too whether I want to ttc again. Most drs won't look into why it's happening until after 3 m/c so if I were you I would try again. Hopefully it turns out good but if not I would make your doctor look into testing your hormones and doing an ultrasound of your ovaries. It could be something as a hormone imbalance that u can correct with a pill. I was just diagnosed with PCOS and it took five before they did anything I wish I would have insisted something get done sooner then my side effects wouldn't be as serious as they are now.
quoteposted 11th Dec
I had my two boys (no issues conceiving them or during my pregnancies), then my six miscarriages. I had testing done and we still don't have an exact reason why I experienced my losses. Only possibilities. It was hard to push through the emotional pain. I wanted another child even more each time though. Almost like I didn't want my miscarriages to be in vain. I tried to keep faith that I would get my miracle. So far, I have gotten one I am nearly 16 weeks and everything is going amazing. I am scared and I am nervous that something will happen, but I am so blessed to have this chance again. In the end all the emotional and physical pain, worrying and stressing will be worth it.
There were days that I didn't know if I could go on. There were days that I wondered if what I was doing was selfish. I just knew that I would always wonder "What-if?" if we didn't keep trying. I wouldn't feel like our family was complete. My boys wanted another sibling just as much as my husband and I wanted another child. I pushed through for myself and my family. I am so happy that I was able. I still get emotion thinking about everything I have been through. I wish I would have never went through it, but I am stronger now. Most of the time anyway.
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