yup, mine is incredibly annoying. She makes a point to tell us every time we see her, she is giving us 2 weeks off of having to bring the kids to her, and every smurfing weekend she texts us to come over, or watch the kids so we can go out. DH is a medical student, and spends all week in class and studying so he can spend the weekend with our kids, I refuse to send them to her and have him lose time.
one day i was doing something and i was like to my SO " baby u want ur mom to come up for xmas and what not for a week" he was like you oka? i was like yeah.. so he called her and asked she said yea and then a few weeks after we asked she asked him if she can come from the 4th-11th i was like are u serious.. i told him no bc we had appointments .. his mom has issues and none of her other kids want nothing to do with her it seems because she dont make it efforts to go see them.