Quoting ~*Flibbertigibbet*~:" I hate that game, too. Thankfully, my fiance only plays once in awhile now. It was to the point where ... [snip!] ... with his son is wrong...and it's bad for your DS as well. Being ignored by your father can have lasting effects on self-esteem."
Which is exactly why I was taking his xbox to work with me. I had had enough. I asked him not to play in front of him anymore because the game is violent and I didn't want him around it, and so to get around that he would just put him in bed and he would lay in there and cry and he wouldn't even be able to hear him. I had my sister spy on him while I was at work and once she saw this a couple times I left work early one day and told him either his xbox was going or we were. He's quit playing before DS's bed time now but it's still all he does after he goes to bed.
When we were living right next to work he was better. He would come home on his breaks and see I was frustrated and exhausted and would help when he got home but since we moved to our house we don't see each other at all during the week except long enough to say hey, bye when he comes home and I leave. I'm just tired of being the only one doing EVERYTHING. And he smurfing wonders why I'm not buying him any of the new games he wants for Christmas. No. I will never, ever buy him another game. He's 32 years old. He needs to grow the smurf up.