Quoting melindapple:" I mean, it's "her" gift so she can do whatever she wants with it I guess. If I wanted something to be for her kids, I'd just get the kids specific gifts and give the presents to the kids directly."
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" No. It's rude to give a gift with strings attached. And it's lovely that she wants to pay the sentiment ... [snip!] ... gifts are a necessity. Maybe she's proud and only wants to give the kids what she earns. No matter, it's no one's business."
Quoting Mandy and her girls!~:" The thing I don't understand is if her children are really wearing raggedy clothing and have no toys ... [snip!] ... children deserve nice things but not them? I would make sure my children are taken care of first and then take care of others."