Quoting {tamz}:" She could still get pregnant on BC, unlikely, but can happen. "

It's happened to me twice now haha.

Quoting Michael Westen:" In some states it's not illegal for a 15 yr old and a 19 yr old. And in all honesty, the girl consented ... [snip!] ... unless it was actually a RAPE. But if my daughter consented too, he doesn't deserve the world of problems that come with that."

I'm inclined to agree with your last statement.

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" I wouldn't consider that being a hypocrite. I never have. I had the same discussion with a friend of ... [snip!] ... you make them do something despite what you did in your past. That just means you have learned and want better for them."

True. Even with that said I don't know if I'd press charges.

Sucky situation :/

Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:" I would put his ass in jail. The first guy I was really into was 19 when I was 15 kind of creepy now that I think about it!"

Not really. I look at the maturity of a 19 yr old now and a 15 yr old and it's really not that different.

I don't know. I would hate to have my 15-year-old raising a baby alone, without child support, because of me putting him in jail.

Quoting Michael Westen:" Not really. I look at the maturity of a 19 yr old now and a 15 yr old and it's really not that different."

especially the potential maturity level of a 19 year old boy and a 15 year old girl….they could potentially be very close in maturity levels. Boys tend to mature much slower.

Quoting Michael Westen:" In some states it's not illegal for a 15 yr old and a 19 yr old. And in all honesty, the girl consented ... [snip!] ... unless it was actually a RAPE. But if my daughter consented too, he doesn't deserve the world of problems that come with that."

I agree.

If he was willing to find a damn good job and provide for the hold he created with my daughter then no he wouldn't be going to jail. But if he bolted and left her high and dry, I might reconsider.

Quoting Not tellin:" To me it doesn't matter if she is a slut or not. Her parents should be in better control of her and be a supporting role to prevent this crap AND, that 19yr old would have his ass in jail!"

You can't "control" your children. You can guide them but they are human beings too.

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" I love you girl, but I'm not touching this one. My child would be on BC."

Yeah, oh and my oh so wonderful child, decided to smurf with me yesterday and tell me she is pregnant, she has a long term boyfriend, but she is only 14. She had to have an ultrasound yesterday on her ovaries, because she was in a lot of pain, and she called me and told me what the results were, and then told me she was pregnant. OMG I started yelling at her, she was like mom mom mom, im kidding, and after her finding out that her friend is pregnant she won't be smurfing with me like that again

Quoting ~*Icat*~:" I'm inclined to agree with your last statement."

I just know several guys who have been in that smurffy situation. Also, 3 of those guys, the girl lied about their age saying they were 17 (which is more acceptable for some reason)

I'd be addressing the issue with my daughter.

I was 13 when I met my husband. He was 17.

Only if she wanted him in jail, otherwise she'd hate me.

Quoting ~*Icat*~:" especially the potential maturity level of a 19 year old boy and a 15 year old girl….they could potentially be very close in maturity levels. Boys tend to mature much slower."

Exactly!!

Quoting Just Ames:"   If I had to give her the shot myself, back alley style, I would."

lol me too, she is on BC, my daughter that is, but thats to regulate her cycles. She actually tells me everything, and I would know it if she was no longer a virgin.