Miserable at the thought of staying...

I told my son's father that I was miserable at the thought of staying and trying to work out this relationship but it just seems like we continue to go in circles. If someone told you this would you let them go? I mean what the smurf? Why the hell does he have to make this difficult. He says he's going to change. I told him that I'm not sure if I believe that. I don't think I want to even try anymore and I made that clear. I haven't made a final decision but I really think that me feeling this way is not a good thing right now. I just feel miserable, pissed off, and everything else. I just don't see any future here. I feel like we are both on opposite sides of a brick wall and we keep banging into.

I thought if you loved someone you were suppose to set them free??? That is what I've always done. I would never ask anyone to stay with me if I knew for a fact they would be miserable no matter how much I cared about them.  

And you need him to end things....why? Dump him yourself.

I'm sorry you're going through this  
Sounds to me like you've made your decision perfectly clear to him; not much else you can do except physically leave. Who knows? Maybe the time apart will make you two realize you actually want to be together? Or give him the clarity you need from him.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" And you need him to end things....why? Dump him yourself."

 

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" And you need him to end things....why? Dump him yourself."

I don't need him to end things. I didn't mean to come off like that. We are broken up, I just haven't moved out yet. That's probably what needs to happen.