is it wrong?

Im trying to get my daughter back into her sleep schedule but i dont know how to? I was thinking im just gonna keep her up until its time for bed that way she stays asleep longer but it seems a little harsh. I tried it once and got super bitched out by SO.Also at what age do kids start putting themselves to sleep? Every nap i have to swaddle her super tight and bounce on the bed for like 30 mins and sing really loud to her lol so im just wondering?
Any advice?

I say wake her up earlier then let her sleep at the appropriate nap time and bed time you shouldn't keep a baby from sleep though... My LO is 9 months and falls asleep in her pack n play at 11 and sleeps through the night until 8 takes a nap at 1 then depending how long that nap runs she will take a nap at 7 to 8

Quoting xoxoxoxoxoxoxo:" I say wake her up earlier then let her sleep at the appropriate nap time and bed time you shouldn't keep ... [snip!] ... at 11 and sleeps through the night until 8 takes a nap at 1 then depending how long that nap runs she will take a nap at 7 to 8"

thats usually my daughters normal schedule but SO didnt work all last week and he would keep her up with him now im screwed 

Quoting elainasmylove♥:" thats usually my daughters normal schedule but SO didnt work all last week and he would keep her up with him now im screwed "

That happened when I let LO go to Chicago with her Gma for a week... She eventually just fell back into her schedule because we went back to our normal day being out during the day coming home for nap, eat, play, bath, bed. Just go back to what you used to do and she will soon follow.

Quoting xoxoxoxoxoxoxo:" That happened when I let LO go to Chicago with her Gma for a week... She eventually just fell back into ... [snip!] ... out during the day coming home for nap, eat, play, bath, bed. Just go back to what you used to do and she will soon follow."

Thanks  

I wouldn't keep her up that'll make her over tired. I'm lucky my LO puts herself to sleep no screaming, has done pretty much from day 1. She'll wake up aswell and just lay there happily looking around for a while 9 times out of 10. I don't think my child is normal LOL. My other 2 screamed and screamed and screamed.

Go back to your normal routine she'll soon get used to it again