Quoting Mommy to 3 boys & 1 girl:" I cant go right now, its 3am, my SO has to go to work in 2 hours and he cant miss anymore days or he ... [snip!] ... noticed that my fingers were swollen a few hours ago. I've also been having braxton hicks all week, not normal at all for me."
If you push down on your foot with you finger for 5 seconds, then move your finger, count how many seconds your skin stays white and indented before it goes back to normal. Count slowly. One mississippi, two mississippi, etc. How many seconds does that take?
How long have you had the headache? Have you tried any meds to alleviate the pain? Do they work?
Can you drive to a 24 hour Wal-Mart or Walgreens and sit at the blood pressure machine so it can at least take your BP?