Quoting Whoahbabyy:" Well i had a miscarriage :/ i ended up passing the baby as soon as i got to the hospital. I guess it ... [snip!] ... ill get my fall baby or christmas baby thank you all for your continous support in this. It really did make it a lil easier."
I am so very sorry, love
I had really hoped it wasn't the case. And when I woke up this morning, you were the first thing I thought about --- getting to the computer to see how you were doing.
I understand wanting to pretend it hadn't happened and I found myself doing the same. It's been 3mth & 1wk since I lost.... I still think of my angel baby, but time does help it to hurt a little less. There is nothing to say to you that will make this better. This isn't something you will "get over," but rather something you will learn to live with.
You might find comfort in friends & family, so please reach out to them if you can. I can't tell you how many women in my life opened up to me about their own losses when they found out about mine and hearing their stories and seeing how far they'd come really did help. I am also here if you ever want to talk... I've found that no one else can understand like someone who has been there. If you are unable to open up to those around you, there is a good support group I found on facebook that really helped me keep my sanity. They have a group for loss, one for ttc after a loss, & one for pregnancy after a loss. I've been a member of all three and there's not been a more supportive place to be when I needed it. They're completely private, so none of your fb friends will see your posts or even know you're a member. I wish you peace and love and hope this new year brings you better things, darlin'