Step mom wants step sister to be in room when i go into labo

So my step mother thinks that i should let my little step sister go back with me when i go into labor but i think its just a little bit weird she says she only wants to stay up by me but its stil very weird she is only 13 and the only ppl i really want in the room is baby daddy and my own mom even though ill probly run her out what should i do about the whole step mom/ step sister thing?? this is the first grand child too

If you don't want them in there, don't let them in there. You can easily tell the nurse to make them wait in the waiting room.

Quoting Savannah Cooper:" So my step mother thinks that i should let my little step sister go back with me when i go into labor ... [snip!] ... though ill probly run her out what should i do about the whole step mom/ step sister thing?? this is the first grand child too"

Say no.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Say no. "

I agree!

Quoting Savannah Cooper:" So my step mother thinks that i should let my little step sister go back with me when i go into labor ... [snip!] ... though ill probly run her out what should i do about the whole step mom/ step sister thing?? this is the first grand child too"

Tell them no. Just say it makes you uncomfortable. This is YOUR birth, you don't need the added stress.

I would tell them you feel uncomfortable and you want to be with your man.

You only get one chance per child to give birth. Make it count. That moment is for you, and the baby and baby daddy if he is there. Who you want there is your decision alone. Don't let people pressure you because you want to be as comfortable as possible. Labor isn't easy for most people, you want to be in the zone not feeling uncomfortable.

its YOUR first child and you'll never get to do it over. So what feels best for YOU, I'd tell them youre not comfortable with it. Feeling awkward and nervous hinders your progress also.

Tell them there are only 2 people allowed but they are more than welcome to come visit after. I wouldn't want a 13 year old with me! You really only need the people you want. I had my mom and husband. It is not a pantless party it's hard work. You can always ask your nurses to clear the room if they show anyways. Then ask that only your mom and so be back with you. My hospital had a special code word for this. I would recommend only having the few people you want because it is intense you will not be entertaining others.

Quoting ღ.ღ.ღ:" If you don't want them in there, don't let them in there. You can easily tell the nurse to make them wait in the waiting room."

This.
All you have to do is tell the nurse you don't want them there.

You want that room to be as comfortable as possible, don't stress over "oh should I let them?" Because it's your decision and your delivery.

maybe she wants to scare your stepsister into never having sex   I would just say that they can be in the waiting room & are welcome to come see the baby right after

this is the second post i have read about this, i dont get why people think they have any right to say who they want to be in the room with you, its your decision and your decision only, personally i would never let my 15 year old sister see me have a baby regardless if she was up by my head or not, let alone a 13 year old.

Quoting *Mary Moon*:" You only get one chance per child to give birth. Make it count. That moment is for you, and the baby ... [snip!] ... want to be as comfortable as possible. Labor isn't easy for most people, you want to be in the zone not feeling uncomfortable."

This a 100%!! i wanted it to be a special private bonding moment so i told everyone ahead of time nobody would be in there for the birth except me and SO....didnt matter anyway cus i ended with a c section but still.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Say no. "

  

thank u all this really helped me. i am just going to have my nurse clear the room or maybe come up with a code for who i want ther or not and only allow my man and mother to be in the room with me. after all it is my choice my child and my delivery i just didnt want to make anybody mad
thank u all