re: No more TTC for Me... :(

Aww   what a bastard!!! At least you weren't married when you found this out though!! You're still so young, too. As cliché as this sounds, a better man will come along & you'll build yourselves a family <3 I'm so sorry to hear things have been so rough for you ((hugs))

Quoting Abel's Mom:" Smurf him then! there is a reason for everything may be this is the reason your baby is in heaven because ... [snip!] ... is in heaven because God knew what an ass he was. you will find some one way better and you will have lovely children with them"

See I feel God is kinda punishing me becuase a little more than 1 year ago, we broke up and I ended up going out with my best friend,her boyfriend and her boyfriend twin brother. We had a good time,had a few drinks,watched a movie and we got together. Well thats who my angel babys father was. We broke up while I was pregnant,I got back together with SO after that. I wondered if he never forgave me for what happened when we had a break.

(make sense?)

No God doesnt punish you by taking away your child that was a gift from him. He took your baby back to heaven for a reason to protect either you or the baby. Im sorry your having such a hard time

I'm so sorry for your loss  

But maybe not conceiving right now is for the best. If you guys were having a rocky relationship already, it's not the time to bring a child into the world. Wait for mr right and try again... nothing makes a child happier than two happily in love parents!

I appreciate EVERYONE'S support here on BG! I love you all!

Quoting Abel's Mom:" No God doesnt punish you by taking away your child that was a gift from him. He took your baby back to heaven for a reason to protect either you or the baby. Im sorry your having such a hard time"

Agree ^

OP if he couldnt handle it then he should have never got back together with you, in first place. Everybody makes mistakes and you werent even with him when you got pregnant that night yall were spilt up. So its better now to see his true colors then later when yall married and your pregnant.

Quoting Carla DiFiore:" Agree ^ OP if he couldnt handle it then he should have never got back together with you, in first place. ... [snip!] ... that night yall were spilt up. So its better now to see his true colors then later when yall married and your pregnant. "

agreed! thank you

Quoting Momma to an Angel:" agreed! thank you"

Everything will work out and I have feeling something better coming your way. You may not see that now but it will . Goodluck with everything , and remember there is nothing you can do that justifies a man cheating on you. And you deserve best like every other woman out there.