re: Are looks important?

I should add that I've always found my husband incredibly attractive and for the most part, he dresses himself pretty well. He's just self-conscious so sometimes he's afraid that he doesn't look good in certain things and needs a little encouragement to wear them, because he has a tendency to be a little chubby. He's put on a little weight but I just say it's sympathy weight gain  

Do not know why i just do not think he is attractive do not know what is wrong with me never felt this way before i knew he wasnt a model some women have hott husbands i knew mine wasnt hott by most standards but he was cute to me

not anylonger idk =[

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" Mrs. Tebow, where have you been? lmao"

Hiding  

Quoting Augbabies:" Do not know why i just do not think he is attractive do not know what is wrong with me never felt this ... [snip!] ... a model some women have hott husbands i knew mine wasnt hott by most standards but he was cute to me not anylonger idk =["

Try to make it work, if you can't then you can't if you are goodlooking yourself and want someone else who cares about their looks and is also goodlooking, to me, that is not wrong

but being that you are married and a new mom sure that is a tough situation  

I think looks are important we just dont really realize. Like I've noticed my SO treats me super good and is all over me if I do my makeup, hair and dress in my nicer clothes. He doesnt treat me bad or anything when I dont dress up he just kinda ignores me or doesnt go out of his way to do things. I have a better success rate of getting him to buy me something I ask for if im prettied up haha. I pointed this out to him and he denied it but its so true. SO use to look smokin hot but he gained weight with me while I was pregnant and became all scruffy haha but I still love him with all my heart and it doesnt really bother me. I look at it as a plus so the bitches will stay away from him  .