Quoting Augbabies:" Do not know why i just do not think he is attractive do not know what is wrong with me never felt this ... [snip!] ... a model some women have hott husbands i knew mine wasnt hott by most standards but he was cute to me not anylonger idk =["
Try to make it work, if you can't then you can't if you are goodlooking yourself and want someone else who cares about their looks and is also goodlooking, to me, that is not wrong
but being that you are married and a new mom sure that is a tough situation