re: Keeping up this charade.

Quoting Hairspray:" You just found out about all of this in Nov and he already asked her to marry him?"

He proposed to her after they were together 1 month. Spent 800 on the ring, once again, that will be considered marital debt and I'll have to pay half of. Well if I have to pay half, I get the ring. It's the simple.

Quoting Carol  :" It's possible they have been dating for some time. My mom swears she's only been dating her new bf for ... [snip!] ... 'talking' on FB for like 5 years and I found out the other day, they have plans to get married as soon as my mom is divorced."

They have been "talking" for 2 months, they actually met 1 month ago before he proposed.

Quoting BG Secrets:" They have been "talking" for 2 months, they actually met 1 month ago before he proposed. "

What a smurfing dumbass. I'm sure her parents can't be to fond of this idea.

Quoting BG Secrets:" They have been "talking" for 2 months, they actually met 1 month ago before he proposed. "

Yeah my mom met her bf for the first time a few months ago..drove all the way across the state without telling anyone what she was doing  

I know it doesn't matter to much because of their age but I personally would want to know how long it was really going on, plus the longer it's been going on the better case you have so I would have your lawyer get a court order for text and FB messages.

Quoting Hairspray:" What a smurfing dumbass. I'm sure her parents can't be to fond of this idea."

The grandma, who she lives with, thinks they are both dumb, but now she's claiming she may be pregnant as well, and " if there is a baby they have to be together." But what about the 2 kids he has already?!

Quoting BG Secrets:" The grandma, who she lives with, thinks they are both dumb, but now she's claiming she may be pregnant ... [snip!] ... she may be pregnant as well, and " if there is a baby they have to be together." But what about the 2 kids he has already?! "

Does she know that she can take a test and find out for sure?

Quoting Hairspray:" Does she know that she can take a test and find out for sure?"

I'm going to go with no. Because she's stalling taking one.. For some reason.