Quoting Alaina's Mommy ♡:" I don't understand it either!! I was shocked when I asked him how long he's known about it and he said ... [snip!] ... because I'm itching like crazy today. So my one day off tomorrow is going to be spent cleaning the entire house. No fun. "
Yeah, it sucks, but you have to make sure she has somewhere safe for her to go where you won't have to worry about her. Is there any way you can refuse visitation until he gets this taken care of? (I don't know anything about custody or any of that, I'm curious is all lol)