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re: Abstinence Education vs. Sex Education.

posted 6th Dec
Quoting £egendary £ex:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:</b>" You are negating emotion in all of your responses."</blockquote> Duh. The sole purpose of breastfeeding is feeding your kid."

No its not, the biological purpose of breastfeeding is to bond with you kid >.<
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posted 6th Dec
Quoting £egendary £ex:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:</b>" You are negating emotion in all of your responses."</blockquote> Duh. The sole purpose of breastfeeding is feeding your kid."

Scientists have found that it has a dual purpose and I would agree.

Breastfeeding and bonding go overwhelmingly hand in hand.

EDIT:

http://www.hugthemonkey.com/2008/07/how-breastfeeding-helps-mothers-bond.html

This is about comfort nursing, which is very common.

http://thebabybond.com/ComfortNursing.html

Oxytocin, the "hormone of love"

Excerpt: "The hormone oxytocin stimulates the let down reflex when a baby starts to breastfeed; however, the role of oxytocin is not just for breastfeeding. In fact, oxytocin is called the hormone of love. Our bodies release high doses of oxytocin during the infatuation stage of love which creates the wonderful high that we experience when we first fall for someone. Breastfeeding creates this same feeling of infatuation every time a mother breastfeeds her baby. These continual doses of oxytocin enhance the bonding and attachment process to securely attach the mother/baby pair."

Source: http://www.drmelaniebee.org/benefits.htm
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 6th Dec
Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:" I've said twice now that I would teach both. Not sure what your question has to do with this debate...but ... [snip!] ... By the time she's sixteen, she is making many of her own choices...and mistakes. I would want to protect her from herself."

I obviously posted it before I saw you had just posted it, and like I said, I was simply curious. Most people who are against premarital sex don't allow their daughters to get on birth control.
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I live in Texas
posted 6th Dec
Quoting TantricLemons:" Science is pretty awesome like that. It focuses on reality, rather than emotion. The purpose of sex is reproduction. Humans would not be a successful species if the purpose of sex was to form a bond."

The emotional ties are addressed in the scientific studies.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 6th Dec
Oh I must have forgotten the purpose of humankind is to worship the Christian god. I was confused by the temptation of Satan... science.
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posted 6th Dec
Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:" Broken hearts are much worse when you are sleeping with someone, for the most part. The physical act ... [snip!] ... many can shut themselves off emotionally. There are exceptions to that rule, but sex is a bonding experience like no other."
Yea, I don't believe that lol. Some people just want to get their rocks off for the hell of it, no bonding there lol.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 6th Dec
Quoting TantricLemons:" What really enrages me is the prevalence of misinformation in abstinence based sex-ed classes in an attempt ... [snip!] ... classes in an attempt to manipulate students to abstain from sex. It results in higher rates of STD's and teen pregnancies."

Yep exactly.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 6th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting TantricLemons:</b>" No its not, the biological purpose of breastfeeding is to bond with you kid >.<"</blockquote>




Mah bad  
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 6th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:</b>" Scientists have found that it has a dual purpose and I would agree. Breastfeeding and bonding go overwhelmingly ... [snip!] ... the bonding and attachment process to securely attach the mother/baby pair." Source: http://www.drmelaniebee.org/benefits.htm"</blockquote>




...I know what oxytocin is. The main purpose is still nourishment
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 6th Dec
Quoting TantricLemons:" Oh I must have forgotten the purpose of humankind is to worship the Christian god. I was confused by the temptation of Satan... science."

That was just a bitter, off topic, snarky comment.

...and you are arguing AGAINST science.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 6th Dec
Quoting TantricLemons:" Oh I must have forgotten the purpose of humankind is to worship the Christian god. I was confused by the temptation of Satan... science."
Hahahaha. Yep science HAS to be Satan lol.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 6th Dec
Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:" That was just a bitter, off topic, snarky comment. ...and you are arguing AGAINST science."
Au contraire it is perfectly on topic. And that my dear would be sarcasm, not an argument.
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posted 6th Dec
Quoting £egendary £ex:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Julie Blue Eyes~:</b>" Scientists have found that it has a ... [snip!] ... ...I know what oxytocin is. The main purpose is still nourishment"

The whole point of this OP was to debate "abstinence or sex ed".

I simply compared the act of sex to bonding with a baby because the same hormones are released while doing both.

This isn't a debate about what breastfeeding is MORE about.

This is stupid now.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 6th Dec
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" Hahahaha. Yep science HAS to be Satan lol."

damn temptation mean to confuse us... mumblemumblemumbleevolutionmumble mumbledinosaurs
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