WWYD????

Say you have a 1 year old and a 2 year old (both boys) and can't afford diapers so you make them both go diaperless all the time except nap time and bedtime. The 2 year old clearly isn't ready to potty train but you continue to force it on him even though he poops on the floor and takes his diaper off at naptime and plays in his poop. Would you be mad if someone you didn't like/talk to whatever, sent you diapers so your poor boys were living in quite so much filth? What if they came from your mom or an anonymous sender and you never knew the real source?

Quoting Angela & Austin's Mama  :" Say you have a 1 year old and a 2 year old (both boys) and can't afford diapers so you make them both ... [snip!] ... were living in quite so much filth? What if they came from your mom or an anonymous sender and you never knew the real source?"

Is she not cleaning up the accidents?  
I'd be pretty stoked if someone sent me diapers if I couldn't afford them. But I wouldn't be forcing my 1 year old[or 2 year old but 1 year ols tend not to be ready] to potty train either. She sounds like a real winner.

Wow that's a crazy scenario. I'd be happy to have diapers.

maybe you should send her some cloth ones so she can reuse them. Are you sure that its that bad?

I would get her cloth diapers. Unless she's lazy and won't do the laundry.

But no I wouldn't be offended if someone sent me diapers.

Quoting Supafly★:" Is she not cleaning up the accidents?   I'd be pretty stoked if someone sent me diapers if I couldn't ... [snip!] ... forcing my 1 year old[or 2 year old but 1 year ols tend not to be ready] to potty train either. She sounds like a real winner. "

I didn't think any mamas on here would be like that but that was the easiest way to word it without going off on a rant lol.
I'm assuming she cleans it up a little but I can't imagine it's that great considering how she is.
I would prefer to call CPS but doubt they would do anything

Quoting .B.:" maybe you should send her some cloth ones so she can reuse them. Are you sure that its that bad?"

This!

Why doesn't she just cloth diaper if she can't afford disposable ones? I don't understand why anyone would let thier kids mess all over the house? Unless you're living in a barn or something...

I'd imagine that she would be pretty pumped to get diapers no matter who they are from.

Quoting Angela & Austin's Mama  :" I didn't think any mamas on here would be like that but that was the easiest way to word it without ... [snip!] ... but I can't imagine it's that great considering how she is. I would prefer to call CPS but doubt they would do anything"

So why would she not want the diapers? If she's too lazy to clean them properly then she's probably too lazy to potty train them. And at that age they are not going to do it themselves. Well the 2 year old might but you said he's not ready.

I thought about sending her cloth but I doubt she'd do the laundry. I know it is because her mother told me about it. She also said to clean the boys up and paddle their asses anytime they did it : (
This is my SIL and she has serious issues. Both accidental pregnancies by two different guys, long story. The one tie I babysat her older son he was filthy and disgusting so I gave him a bath so I could cuddle him and comfort him. He was atticted to multiple drugs she did while pregnant so when he wasn't around her/the rugs he cried nonstop and had withdrawls : (

Quoting Angela & Austin's Mama  :" I thought about sending her cloth but I doubt she'd do the laundry. I know it is because her mother told ... [snip!] ... to multiple drugs she did while pregnant so when he wasn't around her/the rugs he cried nonstop and had withdrawls : ( "

Um, you need to call CPS or have a family member take them out of that household. She is unfit to be a parent from what you've just said.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" Um, you need to call CPS or have a family member take them out of that household. She is unfit to be a parent from what you've just said. "</blockquote>




!!!

How do I get ahold of them? Her boyfriend moved her to Oregon last year and we are all in Wyoming. He got her away from her support because he knew none of us liked him and they were bad enough off before she got pregnant with his kid. She didn't even go to the doctor there until the end of July and she knew she was due in September

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angela & Austin's Mama  :</b>" How do I get ahold of them? Her boyfriend moved her to Oregon last year and we are all in Wyoming. He ... [snip!] ... got pregnant with his kid. She didn't even go to the doctor there until the end of July and she knew she was due in September"</blockquote>
Look up the cps in her area. My SO had to do this to his brother before.

Quoting Angela & Austin's Mama  :" How do I get ahold of them? Her boyfriend moved her to Oregon last year and we are all in Wyoming. He ... [snip!] ... got pregnant with his kid. She didn't even go to the doctor there until the end of July and she knew she was due in September"

http://dfsweb.wyo.gov/social-services/child-protective-services