Quoting CourtyyBugg:" I need some help. I've just came to reality that I need to leave my SO. He is becoming more and more ... [snip!] ... been together long. I need advice, please. I know I need to leave this relationship.. and that's what I'm trying to do. "
I am so sorry you're going through this right now. I went through the same thing with my ex and it got worse. Please call the cops, or have someone pick you and your kid up and have them come to their house. He will hurt you if you don't do something about it. Restraining order, have a cop watch your apartment, whatever you have to do. Please, stay posted so we know you're okay. Sorry again, this brings up old trauma...but once you show him he has no control over you whatsoever he will back off easier, they feed off fear and vulnerability.