re: Feeling like a bad girlfriend.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:</b>" if he makes 26 an hour and makes you beg or gets annoyed yeah i wouldnt be in that relationship for long ... [snip!] ... that relationship for long i can tell you that! maybe tell him when he quits treating you like a dirty beggar he will get some"</blockquote>




This!!! Why is he acting so stingy with money when he is making that much an hour? Your his girl and you had his child, he is suppose to he taking care of you!!

Well for the first part you just have to realize that the baby is not going to die if you leave her alone for 20 minutes to have sex :-P. Simply work around her nap schedule is all with that one. As for the depression, most doctors offer a sliding scale based on your income level. And there are also places that offer it for free as well. I would look into it.

How'd this get into D&D lol
Anyways, even though he makes a lot for some reason we struggle. We have all these bills like tickets he has to pay off. Or always something to fix on his car. That's why he ends up getting annoyed when I want something, which I understand to a point. It does make feel like smurf though. I know he doesn't mean to make me feel like that but he does anytime money is involved. He's a money man and I don't beleive in money being that important of course it is but not to a point.
I don't know. I just hope I can get a descent job so we don't have to argue over money anymore. That's our only relationship problem and the lack of sex.

Quoting Daniee:" How'd this get into D&D lol Anyways, even though he makes a lot for some reason we struggle. We have ... [snip!] ... I can get a descent job so we don't have to argue over money anymore. That's our only relationship problem and the lack of sex."

he has to pay smurf that he caused. that is not your fault dont let him make you feel like it is. if your family needs more money go for it but i have a feeling it will just go for his smurf.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:</b>" he has to pay smurf that he caused. that is not your fault dont let him make you feel like it is. if your family needs more money go for it but i have a feeling it will just go for his smurf. "</blockquote>



No any money I earn goes to whatever I want. He's never asked me for money.