I never thought I'd actually consider an abortion until now.

I'm thinking of getting an abortion. Until now I've been pro-life and I'm honestly not sure I could really go through with it but my current job and living situation is making me feel incapable of having another child. Yet, when I look at my daughter I just think it might be worth the struggle. Has anyone had one after they already had a child or children? ..Did the "regret" ever go away?

I have never had an abortion, but definitely think about it before you get it because if you aren't sure if you really want to get it then there a good chance you will regret it.

What about adopting out?

My friend has a two year old daughter and is almost at her due date for her second child *unplanned. She decided to adopt the child out.

Quoting |♥| Jayme |♥|:" I have never had an abortion, but definitely think about it before you get it because if you aren't sure if you really want to get it then there a good chance you will regret it."

  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amarra's Mommy.:</b>" I'm thinking of getting an abortion. Until now I've been pro-life and I'm honestly not sure I could really ... [snip!] ... it might be worth the struggle. Has anyone had one after they already had a child or children? ..Did the "regret" ever go away?"</blockquote>




I had one after my daughter, I didn't have the reservations you are so honestly it probably isn't the same. I knew instantly what I wanted to do and never wavered. Even after I know I did what was best for me and my daughter.

My advice, dont get one unless you are 100% sure it is the best solution.

Are you positive your living and financial situation will not change?

Do not quote Katheryn

Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" My advice, dont get one unless you are 100% sure it is the best solution. Are you positive your living and financial situation will not change? "

This. Good luck in whatever you choose tho Mama. What a hard decision to have to make  

Quoting ♥ Monkey:" Wow..."

can you please unquote that...that's about the get modded.

The smurf is wrong with you idiots?

ETA, not OP.

It's a really tough spot to be in, OP. We had our kids pretty much back to back and I won't lie, the thought did cross my mind. You have to look at your situation now, is there room for improvement, what's your support system like, can you get more help. etc etc. Do what you feel it's best, it's a tough choice but trust yourself to make the right decision. best of luck.

Just FYI OP your baby's legs won't be torn off, don't listen to the Jesus troll. Book an appointment and listen to them tell you about the procedure first hand, then make your decision.

But Sarah is right, if you're already uncomfortable with the decision I fear you will regret it and I can't imagine how terrible it would be to regret an irreversible decision. So really think about it, if you make the appointment and feel more at ease with the idea than it sounds like it would be for the best. But if you still have concerns don't do it.