re: i feel bad for my so

<blockquote><b>Quoting nani's mami:</b>" i hope so, its not that i wouldn't feel love im just so confused and just feel so horrible, all he wants ... [snip!] ... parents loved him and all i talk about is well maybe when can have one later when we are done with school and then he gets sad"</blockquote>




I think you are just freaking out.. And need to try and relax..



Everything will be all gravy. Trust me

<blockquote><b>Quoting nani's mami:</b>" aww thank you hey u look sorta like alice form twilight..i think shes so pretty sorry that was outta the blue i just thought that when i looked at ur pic"</blockquote>




Aww, haha thanks... I'm pale enough at least  


Anyways, it sounds like you have a good partner, and that helps lighten the load when you have someone to lean on. I wish you the best!

I know exactly how you are feeling. When I found out that I was pregnant with this one (second DD) I felt the same way. My Husband was all exciting and all that jazz but I was sad and crying all the time. I even told me husband I want to abort it. And every time I said that husband got sad but he said if that is what I really wanted he would support me. Well around 17 weeks I started not being sad and got excited about this baby. I am 35 weeks and I can honestly say I am excited for this baby but I still get those moments where I am overwhelmed but we will see. I hope it gets better for you. If you want to chat I am always here.

Quoting Cuterest:" I know exactly how you are feeling. When I found out that I was pregnant with this one (second DD) I ... [snip!] ... get those moments where I am overwhelmed but we will see. I hope it gets better for you. If you want to chat I am always here."

i sure will i am still very confused. i try to stay positive but i cant stop thinking of maybe a better life without this baby right now we had so many plans to do things..go to rio de janerio for 2014 world cup and have a beautiful beach weeding then buy a house after we graduate and have the money to do so then try to have a baby on our honey moon.

Quoting nani's mami:" i sure will i am still very confused. i try to stay positive but i cant stop thinking of maybe a better ... [snip!] ... beach weeding then buy a house after we graduate and have the money to do so then try to have a baby on our honey moon."

I completely understand. I remember telling my husband after having our first that I wanted to wait a VERY LONG time before we have another kid. Yeah it has been almost 4 years but I wanted to wait a lot longer. Wait for school to be over. But when I really thought about going through with an abortion I couldn't see myself doing it. That is what made me decide to keep the baby. How far along are you?

Quoting Cuterest:" I completely understand. I remember telling my husband after having our first that I wanted to wait ... [snip!] ... through with an abortion I couldn't see myself doing it. That is what made me decide to keep the baby. How far along are you?"

im 6 weeks today

How are you feeling today?

Quoting Cuterest:" How are you feeling today?"

goodness i tried to talk to him again and he says he is against abortion but if its what makes me happy then i am free to do so.... he doesn't understand that its not that it will make me happy and joyful its just a very stressful time in my life right now and my daughter takes all my time i mean i just finished my last class today for this semester i had to do a presentation literally holding in my nausea and trying to hide the fact that i felt like throwing up. i just want to get into nursing school by the fall semester of next year and this is very important to me and my daughter i want to offer her the best i can. and having a baby right now will just set me back. he says he will keep studying and its like ok great for u but what about my nursing?? it seems kinda selfish idk

and might i add the condom broke i took plan b literally 6 hours later and i still got pregnant..i tried to prevent this from happening i was like OHHH NO I HAVE TO GO TO WAL-MART NOW AND DRINK THIS PILL

Oh man.   I am so sorry. Your SO sounded just like my DH. We got into so many arguments/discussions about getting an abortion. They say "whatever makes you happy" but really they are saying don't go through with it because I will hold it against you. Well that is what I felt. Have you decided what you really want to do? What I mean is when you think about it seriously what pops in your head?
There is so many moms out there that go to school pregnant and have more than 1 kid and still make it through college?
Have you told anyone else your pregnant?

Quoting Cuterest:" Oh man.   I am so sorry. Your SO sounded just like my DH. We got into so many arguments/discussions ... [snip!] ... go to school pregnant and have more than 1 kid and still make it through college? Have you told anyone else your pregnant?"

my mom knows but that was because i left my cell at her house and she was nosy and got into my messages and saw what i was writing my friend about just finding out i am pregnant and thinking about abortion she got all upset and was like dont do it. but no one other than him my mom and my two best friends! i dont want to say anything to anyone else. and yes i am more on the abortion side then the keeping it side. i just want the best i am geez at least let me finish nursing then ok we can have one but not right now  

Quoting nani's mami:" my mom knows but that was because i left my cell at her house and she was nosy and got into my messages ... [snip!] ... the keeping it side. i just want the best i am geez at least let me finish nursing then ok we can have one but not right now  "

I totally understand.   You want to be at a better place in your life before adding another little one. Do you think your SO would hold it against you if you do go get an abortion? Is that the only factor of you not going to go do it right now?

Quoting Cuterest:" I totally understand.   You want to be at a better place in your life before adding another little one. ... [snip!] ... SO would hold it against you if you do go get an abortion? Is that the only factor of you not going to go do it right now? "

i don't want to hurt him i know it will devastate him but i don't think he will hold it against me but i know it will hurt me...for him i have not done anything but i just cant hold back only because of him i have to think of my daughter and i as well

Quoting nani's mami:" i don't want to hurt him i know it will devastate him but i don't think he will hold it against me but ... [snip!] ... him i have not done anything but i just cant hold back only because of him i have to think of my daughter and i as well"

It sounds like you made up you mind.   Have you called and set up and appointment yet? I think whatever you decide will be the best thing for you and your daughter.  

Quoting Cuterest:" It sounds like you made up you mind.   Have you called and set up and appointment yet? I think whatever you decide will be the best thing for you and your daughter.   "

tomorrow but ill talk to them then i hope things go well :/