Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" Do you think that when the sex is gone (meaning that you have no desire to have sex with that person ... [snip!] ... do you sustain a relationship knowing it's over until the time is right to end it if the other party doesn't want to break up?"
Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" No it's not over, yes it can be salvaged while being faithful, and you don't fake it. When you're done you should end it, it's not fair to "fake it"."
Quoting ModernMan'sHustle ♥:" Me and hubby haven't had sex in over a month...it's just how it goes in this house. I don't have a very ... [snip!] ... to be there anymore. It's not fair to the other person. If you're not happy, end it. In the long run it's better for everyone."
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" I WANT to have sex...just not with him. I have no desire anymore, and haven't for a while. Part of ... [snip!] ... nowhere to go unless it's 45 minutes away to his dads, or 12 hours away to his sisters. Neither of which I want for our son."
Quoting ModernMan'sHustle ♥:" It's not right to fake it though. If you don't want to be with him, be honest. He's an adult and will ... [snip!] ... He's an adult and will figure out what to do with his life. Letting him believe everything is fine is just not right to me..."
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" No he knows everything is not fine, he just wants to pretend like it is because he's got a nice life ... [snip!] ... stay together for Jayson, while I think Jayson needs to see his parents happy. He thinks us, unhappy but together, is better."