re: Happily Marrired

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Rover:</b>" I am..very much so..even though we are bickering right now. lol Still a great marriage. Just lots of ... [snip!] ... marriage. Just lots of work. Don't worry it will happen. This is my second marriage. I didn't think it would happen either."</blockquote>


Thank you ! I'm so scared to fail twice, but I really feel like I could find a good fit

I'm truly happy.

Have we had our ups and downs? Most definitely.

Could I imagine my life not being with him? Absolutely not.

We've been together for 5-6 years, married for over 2. I wouldn't want it any other way.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting RunsWithScissors:</b>" I'm happily married. Though, finances are tight and we're a little grumpy at the world we'll be celebrating ... [snip!] ... April and six years of being together in June. Not all is lost, you'll find your "happily ever after" when the timing is right."</blockquote>




Thank You   I want to believe it's possible

Quoting Rad Tech Chick:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" I'm not happily married. I hate it and regret it daily."</blockquote> I'm Sorry  ( that was me for years"

I have a plan to leave in Feb but I'm so back and forth on it. I feel like I should try more but I haven't been happy for awhile.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" I have a plan to leave in Feb but I'm so back and forth on it. I feel like I should try more but I haven't been happy for awhile."</blockquote>




I went through that also. We separated twice and did counseling. It's really hard, still is but better than being together

Quoting Michael Westen:" I'm not happily married. I hate it and regret it daily."

you and me both.

Quoting Rad Tech Chick:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" I have a plan to leave in Feb but I'm ... [snip!] ... I went through that also. We separated twice and did counseling. It's really hard, still is but better than being together"

He said if we separate, we won't get together again. Which at this point I don't care. But it's a huge change. And I have been with him since a week after I turned 18. We tried counseling. He went back to his old habits immediately.

Quoting Lovin' My Family!!!:" you and me both."

I feel bad but at the same time I don't want to spend forever being unhappy when I can picture myself living on the beach with just my daughter completely happy!

Quoting Michael Westen:" I feel bad but at the same time I don't want to spend forever being unhappy when I can picture myself living on the beach with just my daughter completely happy!"

i see you are army. i was in for awhile and i miss it sometimes but then again i am glad to be out haha. but yeah, i keep telling myself i am leaving him and end up staying. he will change and be the best person but then change back to being his regular self (doesn't help, doesn't talk, etc). I can't handle it. it's like a cycle.

Married 8 years and still happy about it.
 

Quoting Lovin' My Family!!!:" i see you are army. i was in for awhile and i miss it sometimes but then again i am glad to be out haha. ... [snip!] ... person but then change back to being his regular self (doesn't help, doesn't talk, etc). I can't handle it. it's like a cycle."

Yeah I actually ETS soon. Lol. So I'm thinking about moving to FL and joining the FL Guard for the education benefits so I can get school paid for. Lol.

DH is very controlling. He ignores our daughter and it's just toxic.

I've been married to DH 6 years this month. I cannot imagine being anymore in love with him than I am now. The love & respect that I have for this man grows daily. It's taken a hell of a lot to get to this point in our marriage though.

There was a point, a little over two years ago, where I truly thought we were doomed. I had no hope in fixing our marriage. But he surprises me daily & we got through it!

I'm not married yet. But I believe you can find the right fit, I believe you're always growing as a person, so in turn you WILL grow apart from certain people. There's someone out there who is growing as a person in a similar way as you... I sound crazy but I definitely believe you have a reason to be inspired. It's real. It's obtainable with effort where needed.

I've been with DH almost 5 years, married for 2 1/2 and no, I am not happy at all. Things were great at first, but for the past 6 months or so, EVERYTHING has been smurffy. I've talked to him about it a million times because if it's possible for us to work through it, then I'd like to. I love him with all my heart, but judging by the way he acts, right now I don't think things are going to be getting better and I am not going to stick around and be unhappy for the rest of my life so something needs to happen fast or I'm done. It sucks.  

after 6 years together 4 years married and severe drug use and cheating we finally are happy. Do I sometimes want to smack him with a frying pan oh yes but we found the love again.