Quoting Sara *Aiden's Mommy*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Xsecure mommaX:</b>" my sisters ex husnabd who shs was married ... [snip!] ... that he is just being influenced by his friend. He friend just keeps telling him he was overcompensating with all the girls."
I'm gonna be blunt here....
If your husband has been living with his gay friend for a few months now, and all of a sudden says he's gay. Chances are that he and his friend have messed around... and he enjoyed it. It sounds like he didn't want to pursue those things when he was younger, because believe me.... the backlash and the criticism is god smurfing awful (I've been through it). So he hid it.
I don't think he's lying, momma. Or confused. I think he just finally found the courage to be truthful about it all.