Quoting lolajessup:" I worry about my dd too. She's 5 and has had us all to herself. She already loves her sister and asks ... [snip!] ... to not remember any different. But to have them at an age where they understand more is almost a little harder emotionally."
This is exactly how I feel. I don't want her feelings to be hurt (she's really emotional as it is) and feel like I don't want to spend all the time with her. She's not going to understand that a breastfeeding newborn takes up so much time. I'm glad someone can relate, I don't feel so terrible about it.
I know it will all work out, I just hope it all comes easy!